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| Author: | GreenieUK [ Mon Mar 01, 2010 1:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | The "Cheer up" opener |
It might be just me, but I rarely walk around nightclubs seeing HB's grinning like idiots, so here's what I do - As soon as you enter the club, walk around and EVERY set that has a possible target that isn't smiling, simply say (with a huge grin on your face) "cheer up, you look depressed" then wink and slowly walk off. (I say slowly coz 1 in 5 attempts at this leads to the girl to trying to explain why she isn't smiling, so obviously you'd start talking to her) Now you could just leave it at that, which I do some nights to fill me with confidence, and it gives the impression you know almost everyone in the club if you start on another target. Or you could carry it on - Next, every time you bump into one of them, get her attention and draw a smile on your face with your fingers, she'll smile n once again, walk away. When you see them for a third time (by now you'll have those girls in the bar looking out for you/looking at you) they should instinctively smile at you, so say to them You - "why is it you only seem to be happy when you see me?" Her - some random shit You - gogo routines n shit This works well coz most of the student nightclubs I go to are quite small, so you see the same people at least 5 or 6 times in a night, but it may not be as effective if the clubs you go to are bigger. Used it quite a lot since getting back to university, to the point where girls now open me in the middle of the street/around campus telling me to cheer up, despite me often not remembering where I know em from. So go try spreading some PUA cheer, see how it works for you guys |
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| Author: | Smartbomb [ Mon Mar 01, 2010 3:36 pm ] |
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I'd like to see you field test this theory, Greenie. It could fail miserably on a couple of counts. The girl is not depressed, just thinking or whatever. You open the set and then walk away, potentially missing an opportunity when the group decides to get up and leave or another guy moves in. The girl IS depressed and you just helped her remember why she is depressed, like her mother just died or her boyfriend broke up with her or whatever. They say this is sales training and it totally holds true for PU as well - you want to be the person associated with fun and enjoyment. Downers never get laid. Situational openers are the hardest. I guess an opener I used a week or so ago would be considered a variation on this. I saw an HB9 sitting at a table by herself staring into a glowing screen. Beers on the table everywhere. I just said something simple like, "Oh, your friends all abandoned you, huh?" and walked away. Then it gave me an opportunity to more easily open the set when all the girlfriends returned from the bathroom. |
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| Author: | techprotools [ Mon Mar 01, 2010 3:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | bar |
When you see them for a third time (by now you'll have those girls in the bar looking out for you/looking at you) they should instinctively smile at you, so say to them |
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| Author: | GreenieUK [ Mon Mar 01, 2010 6:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The "Cheer up" opener |
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Used it quite a lot since getting back to university, to the point where girls now open me in the middle of the street/around campus telling me to cheer up, despite me often not remembering where I know em from.
I have field tested this. A lot. n yeah it can fail miserably on a lot of counts, but so can every opener.say you try n open this hypothetical girl that you're talkin about that is actually depressed coz her family member has just died. Give me a routine that won't remind her she's depressed. It works as an awesome test too. The girls that give you the reaction you want - ie. a really bubbly girl will put on an extremely over exaggerated cheesey smile when she sees you, someone more shy will flash you a smile and look away. Those that aren't interested won't smile at all. It's why it works so well to use it on a number of targets when you enter your location |
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| Author: | Plays Upfront [ Thu Mar 11, 2010 11:35 am ] |
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I like it! It's an indirect approach but can work well too. Might use it someday and I'll tell ya about it |
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