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Author:  The Pole [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 1:26 am ]
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There is this girl HB8 who goes to the same gym as I do. I've been thinking how can I open her in the gym as that's the only place I ever see her at. Have you got any ideas?
Author:  Plays Upfront [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 7:08 am ]
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Just approach her and ask her:

"Any chance I can see you somewhere else other than the gym?"

then just smile and introduce yourself. that will give her an idea that you have been noticing her already.
Author:  rty [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 1:47 pm ]
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dude, ask her for a spot or something...
Author:  Dkat [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 1:50 am ]
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you could walk up to her in the middle of her set and tell her form is terrible with a smirk on your face or something as a opener and carry on from there.
Author:  rty [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 5:08 am ]
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like the blokes were saying in the other post "don't shit where you eat"

if its a flop, your gonna be looked down upon by heaps of the poeple there...hence why poeple do this stuff where they will most likely never see them again...
Author:  The Pole [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 9:43 pm ]
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like the blokes were saying in the other post "don't shit where you eat"

if its a flop, your gonna be looked down upon by heaps of the poeple there...hence why poeple do this stuff where they will most likely never see them again...
that's true. it'd be even worse because i work at that gym.
I would gladly approach her and start with some opener but she's got headphones on all the time. Besides, all she does is treadmill and cross-trainer which keep her kinda isolated
Author:  Dkat [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 10:43 pm ]
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I would be careful if its your regular gym, chances are this girl works out there too. My buddy number closed id say a hb6 at the gym and never called/texted her. he has seen her twice in the gym since. both times have been awkward. tension ruins your workout and makes you feel like a jackass. haha
Author:  footjob [ Fri Jan 29, 2010 2:35 am ]
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One of my key rules on approaching is to never approach a girl in a place I go frequently and the gym is one such place.

Even if it goes well and you get a close of some sort it is likely you are going to be seeing this girl again even if you don't wish to see her.

As someone said earlier- don't shit where you eat.

There are enough girls around to not have to approach girls at the gym. No matter how hot you may think she is, there are countless others just as hot you can game.
Author:  Clozer [ Fri Jan 29, 2010 11:51 am ]
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I also abide by the don't shit where you eat mantra. I also don't like to be distracted by pussy when I'm working out.

Anyways if you just have to meet this chick, find a way to bump into her AFTER her workout. Follow her to the supermarket or wherever she goes afterwards. "Run into her" there, number close, and then if she finds out you work at the gym she goes to it will be like this cool coincidence. And then you can say something like, "Hey, you're not stalking me now, are you?"
Author:  lumberjack [ Tue Feb 02, 2010 8:36 pm ]
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i was at my gym the other day and i got into a conversation with one of the personal trainers who i think is great, but when i was working out with him on a new system he would invite girls over to participate with us. Basically he would tell them to come over and try what they were just doing on the new piece of equipment. Then when they were doing it he would critique them on what they were doing and what they should do. (Example: you can do anything on this workout system, like tighten up your midsection.) nice inconspicuous neg. I noticed that this was great gym game but he was just being a great trainer. Stuff like this would only work if you are actually fit, and on this system i mean fit. I dont remember what its called but its another one of those NAVY SEAL type systems but A) its exspensive and B) you can work out any muscle on it.
Author:  drewski [ Fri Feb 05, 2010 8:12 am ]
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I absolutely love gym game. exciting, but sometimes difficult. I've found being playful in the gym is much better than going with direct openers or walking around like you're just there to own and destroy weights hahaha. Those are the douchy guys. Sure, get a good workout, but talk to everyone! girls and guys.

I think the aura and swagger you show in the gym shows a lot about you. The weight room is a place where EVERYONE checks EVERYONE out. girls check out girls and guys. guys check out girls and guys-not saying in a gay way... just try and tell me you don't recognize every guy that frequents your gym... it's the same for girls, so make your presence felt by smiling and conversing, but still meaning business. and no grunting or trying to show off with heavy weights.

Some friendly, indirect openers you might like are simply asking what a girl is listening to... be funny if you want! (that's kinda my style :D)

PUA: Hey, what are you listening to? I can never find the right music to get pumped up in the gym :D lol. What do you think of miley cyrus?

This is funny - girls love it.... build a little rapport. I even switched ipods with a girl the other day for like 15 minutes. i went back to her and we talked about music for 10 minutes. then # close.

I ALSO love commenting on girls clothing, or their lifting outfit. I wear black shoes and lots of the girls at my gym wear all black... i dunno if that's a gym outfit trend, but it works perfect because everytime i see it i go tell a girl that we should switch shoes because mine go better with her outfit.

If you are confident enough, aka have a good physique, ask a great looking girl "I really need help with all this cottage cheese on my legs and it looks like you know what you're doing. are you ready to be my trainer?... (drag out the word trainer and reach out your hand to exchange names)"

the gym is AWESOME! some of the best girls you can find reside in the gym. however, like Dkat said, if you number close on a girl you most likely won't call, just make sure you put off the same aura next time you see her in the gym. USE HER to get noticed by other girls!!! little hug, big smile, light talk, then move on

good luck and happy gym gaming!
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