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| Author: | GVIRUS [ Thu Aug 30, 2007 5:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Repeating the same questions, what to say. |
I have been trying to get with this girl that i work out with everyday. At first it was going really great, i was flirting with her and she was with me. Now this week she has told me 5 different times, 4 times to day, that i already asked that question. I dont know why i did not remember that i asked that question. The rest of the day we looked at each other in silence. I have really lost what to say, it seems like she is open to go to a bar with me, but i might be losing her intrest. How do i keep this girl interested, what do i say? |
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| Author: | VanHaven [ Thu Aug 30, 2007 6:31 am ] |
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almost sounds like you're struggling for conversation to me and she isn't pulling her weight in the process. Find something that inrests the both of you. When you do, tell her a story about something involving you and that intrest. Because it's something you're genuine about it'll keep her intrest and make her want to be a part of that conversation. She'll begin asking you questions, and so on and so forth. |
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| Author: | Evoke [ Thu Aug 30, 2007 7:42 pm ] |
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GVIRUS, Why haven't you taken her to the bar? I think you ran out of things to talk about because you're always at the gym. I'm sure if you get her out, you'll think of something else to talk about....the music that's in the jukebox (take her with you to pick music...good oportunity to neg her on her "cheesy" choices), what you're drinking (once again..not "what a girlie drink!"...or "what an alkie"...etc..), talk about the people around you (what they are wearing...."would you wear something like that"?), the art or decor in the bar, etc... I think you get the idea. |
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| Author: | jinla [ Thu Aug 30, 2007 9:05 pm ] |
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Pick up the pace GVIRUS! My opinion, if your repeating yourself than you are not phase shifting fast enough. questions and stories are mostly for opening. if you're still fluff talking, she's probably getting bored. Also, it seems like you may have been spending too much time with this one. Start moving around and ignoring her. Act like you have other shit going on more important than talking to her. If she likes your looks she'll may still go out with you, otherwise ur probably doomed. I know this is hard in the gym. I got a similar situation panning out myself with a girl that works at my gym. Just cracked her open yesterday. fluffed talked her, she gave me IOIs. Today i'll move into logic games, and tease her when she fails (mixing in kino, and a half smile). Then I'll get the number/email and stay cocky funny but with serious flirting and innuendos. Good Luck! |
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| Author: | GVIRUS [ Fri Aug 31, 2007 3:28 am ] |
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Ok, well thanks for the tip, today went really well. What i decided to do, was act like i was feeling really great, act like alot of new things were going on. Then this started her to actually talk, i used some tips on controlling smiles and good answers to questions. I even got some reactions out of her to work out with her on other machines. I started to get to mean, but i caught myself. I dont know really what to do this weekend, plus she has my number and i really dont want to ask her for her number, so i just told her to call me this weekend, which i know she wont, but oh well. |
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| Author: | Aboe [ Fri Aug 31, 2007 2:37 pm ] |
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i think you should try bitch crack or read a funny story on the internet and then tell her and say its your story if you know what i mean |
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