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| Author: | Verbal Kent [ Wed Aug 29, 2007 8:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | So now what.. I approached and opened now I'm stuck |
So I'm back in college and loving all the ladies that I see. I met one yesterday in one of my classes, she seems really nice, cute Spanish girl I'd say a 9. Here's what happened. I was walking out of my legal studies class and the HB 9 was walking slightly ahead of me. I walked up next to her and opened with a situational opener. We were having a discussion in class about Michael Vick, the famous NFL football player being charged with gambling and dog fighting, I'm sure you've hear about it.So during class, another girl asked who Michael Vick was. The entire class erupted with laughter and even the teacher was laughing. So I opened the HB 9 with: ME "Can you believe what that girl said in class?" HB "Yeah I can't believe she said that, I don't even watch sports that much and I know who he is." ME "I know right, just turn on any channel and your bound to hear something about him." We laughed about it for a second or two. So she was opened. We were walking out of the building together. The HB 9 asked what I was studying. I told her, Journalism. She then respond "You look like a Journalist. With the glasses and all." I then said "Thank You I'll take that as a compliment". She laughed and said "Yeah it was". and I asked what she was studying. She answered and we continued talking. We chatted about our Legal Studies teacher, Our thoughts on the class etc. She introduced herself I then told her my name.. We were walking outside when she got a voicemail on her cell phone. I kept quiet as she listened, afterward she said. "I need to call them back. I'm sorry." I said "Go ahead no worries". We kept walking while she talked on her phone. Apparently she was talking to a someone about scheduling a job interview. . We walked a few more feet and she stopped. I stopped for a second with her. I didn't want to come off as a creepy guy just standing there so I said "Hey I got to go and meet some friends, (girl's name).. I'll see you on Thursday".. She smiled and waved and I turned and walked off. I felt really positive about her I felt good energy with her and my question is Now What? I didn't use any Game on her just the typical "get to know you" stuff. Can I still recover when I see her on Thursday? recommendations on what to do next? |
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| Author: | Fox. [ Wed Aug 29, 2007 11:37 pm ] |
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Yes, you can still recover just be careful not to get trapped in the "Friend Zone" When you see her again get kino going on and attraction, and game her. Hope this helps.... FOX |
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| Author: | VanHaven [ Wed Aug 29, 2007 11:40 pm ] |
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what's to recover from? Next time you see her chat again for a minute, throw her an SOI and go for the close. Sounds like a sweet girl |
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| Author: | Apollo [ Thu Aug 30, 2007 1:11 am ] |
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Sounds like you are entering the friends zone if you don't go cocky-funny, neg, or escalate. Always push forward. You played the nice guy routine there and that rarely works unless you are going for friend zone. Careful. |
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| Author: | Chameleon [ Fri Aug 31, 2007 3:05 pm ] |
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NEG NEG NEG NEG NEG more NEG if you dont want to fall in the friends zone...don't be a nice guy, be a bad guy |
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| Author: | iam fuzz [ Fri Aug 31, 2007 6:01 pm ] |
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Quote: NEG NEG NEG NEG NEG more NEG
be a nice guy WITH a bad guy attitude.if you dont want to fall in the friends zone...don't be a nice guy, be a bad guy the world doesnt need more bad guys >.< -fuzz |
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| Author: | Crush [ Fri Aug 31, 2007 10:32 pm ] |
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I think you're fine. But everyone here is correct; Cocky, Funny, Neg. Also, meet some other girls in that class (or if you know some, flirt with them) so you can DHV. If you're ever not talking to someone and being popular in class, be texting on your phone to some imaginary model. Lastly, do not come off as trying to impress her. That will sink you fast. My next move would be to have a friend in the class walk up and tell a DHV story about me, or DHV me in some other way. If she's an HB, so much the better. |
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| Author: | BlackBull [ Fri Aug 31, 2007 10:55 pm ] |
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You're on the right track. It seems that this situation with the girl is being set up perfectly.You did decent.You kept her interested,but didn't go as progressive as you should have been. Next time you two meet,build up on the momentum from last time.go in and out with negs,interesting stories,and show your character. Let it happen naturally,BUT...take action when appropiate. Best of luck with her man. |
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| Author: | JUSTINcredible! [ Sat Sep 01, 2007 12:35 am ] |
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I agree with working a rapport with the class. And slipping in a neg here and there. Just don't not do anything. If you do you'll be trapped in the friend zone real quick. |
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