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Author:  Masterlock [ Fri Nov 20, 2009 5:37 am ]
Post subject:  So how do you open THAT girl... you know, THAT girl
...The girl that hasnt sat still in her entire life. The girl that starts her morning by baking a pie and singing. The hands-y, hugs-y girl. The ADHD girl with the DD's that just...keep...jiggling cause she just...keeps...moving...Yeah, how do you get her attention, short of tackling her (cause that doesn't always work)

Basically, how do you walk up, grab her, kiss her on the forehead, and start talking to her? Cause 98% of the time she'll just see the next shiny object, and then BOOM you dont exist to her anymore
Author:  DirtyDreams [ Sat Nov 21, 2009 3:34 pm ]
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You need to "work for her attention". Use direct game, because indirect makes her just go around because she doesnt see there anything interesting.

http://www.gunwitch.com/ - Gunwitch Method
Author:  almost [ Sun Nov 22, 2009 2:45 pm ]
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read up and study Mystery's M3 Indirect game model.
Its better starting out, and equally as good as gunwitches method later on, it requires more effort to learn and use.

Gunwitches method becomes effective ONLY when you have tapped into your extreme confidence and you will get blown out more BECAUSE direct game allows you to be initially be rejected.

but initially use M3 model, if you become a pro switch over. You will still use elements from the M3.
Author:  Abdul-aAfc [ Sun Nov 22, 2009 4:13 pm ]
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Well you could come in with the same high energy she's got in order to build intense rapport because likelihood is everyone around her thinks she's wierd. Fight fire with fire my man
Author:  asherb [ Mon Nov 23, 2009 8:10 pm ]
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Dude,

Just be confident, Make her laugh, and don't stay around to long. Your value drops.

Check out the closing a girl's number forum
Author:  dronten [ Sun Nov 29, 2009 2:53 pm ]
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When gaming ADHD/ADD girls, try to get them alone as early as possible. The thing about ADHD/ADD people (yeah, I'm one of them) is that they have trouble sorting through impressions. Sights, sounds, persons, conversations. They DO have a lot of focus and are usually kind of perceptive (in a weird but cool way :P) but have serious problems with focusing and/or controlling what they focus on. This can be a problem, but it can also be an asset for people gaming them.

Approach a girl like this in a heavily social setting and you'll probably have slim chances of getting through to her (and even less if you want her to actually understand that you're flirting with her) unless you can outshout the whole avenue without seeming like an ass (kind of hard)... BUT! Approach her when she is alone in an environment with less attention stealing elements and chances are the full force of her focus will fall on you. If you're more interesting than the wall or the ceiling, she won't be able to help herself :P Then it's just a matter of playing your cards right.

Isolation is always good, but with this kind of girl it's VITAL! The good news is that even if you do meet her somewhere crowded, isolation (and remember, you have to get her, at least somewhat, PHYSICALLY isolated so she can focus!) will probably be easier than with a lot of other girls. Just give her a plausible reason (let's go look at the stars! *takes her hand and skips away with her*) and keep your energy levels up until you get her away from the din of the crowd. If you can't get your energy levels up to at least aproximately ADHD levels, don't even try to game an ADHD girl in a social environment. To put it in the original posters words, you need to be "shiny" as hell :P With ADD girls, the energy levels will probably be a lot lower, but you still need to isolate FAST to get anywhere.

However, when you do get her alone she's actually easier to deal with than a lot of other girls. Just be fun, listen to what she says and establish rapport by being insightful and understanding, tell her straight out what you want (beating around the bush is pointless.. she'll probably miss all your "hints")... Just take her hand, look into her eyes and tell her you think she's really cute and fun and that will work wonders. Easygoing and direct, that's the way to game these girls. Just be prepared to deal with a lot of random side-tracking in the convo, especially if she's all fired up from the clubbing/partying/whatever social situation you snatched her away from :P

Happy hunting! :P ADHD/ADD people are usually very open and honest, and those with a sunny disposition are very fun to talk to and be with (and I'm not just saying that to make you like me lol) :D
Author:  _Manna_ [ Mon Nov 30, 2009 3:08 am ]
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From personal experience, two things stand out more than anything

1. Heavier kino to keep attention
2. Heavier flirting

Don't forget to heighten the energy, you always keep your energy a tad above the other persons, so lets hope you have stamina haha.
Author:  dronten [ Mon Nov 30, 2009 6:58 am ]
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_Manna_: Yeah, of course, the kino. Forgot to say that is a part of the "shiny" thing :P Everything you do have to be geared towards being attention grabbing, especially if you're in a distraction filled setting.

But I disagree about the energy. Generally speaking I agree it's a good idea to have slightly higher energy than the girl you are gaming (in a social setting, daygame is a bit different), but with really hyperactive ADHD girls the levels can be so very extreme. For one thing, it's hard to emulate in a natural way, unless you're an ADHD person yourself. And another thing is that if you go into the interaction with higher energy levels you can easily trigger girls like this to go into even higher gear by mistake, until you have them jumping around, bouncing off walls. And the higher the energy goes, the more the ability to focus on one person flies out the window. It's better to come in with just your own "high energy mode" (certainly higher than her friends who think she's a bit of an oddball), high but still a bit lower than hers. And when you do isolate her, you have to make sure she "lands"... lead her into slowly lowering her energy to a level that feels more natural for you. Otherwise you probably will have problems with both rapport and establishing a sexually playful frame. Besides, hyperactive or stressed out people usually feel really secure with people who can handle them and calm them down, so that's generally a good way to make them feel good about you :)
Author:  _Manna_ [ Mon Nov 30, 2009 3:27 pm ]
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But I disagree about the energy. Generally speaking I agree it's a good idea to have slightly higher energy than the girl you are gaming (in a social setting, daygame is a bit different), but with really hyperactive ADHD girls the levels can be so very extreme. For one thing, it's hard to emulate in a natural way, unless you're an ADHD person yourself. And another thing is that if you go into the interaction with higher energy levels you can easily trigger girls like this to go into even higher gear by mistake, until you have them jumping around, bouncing off walls. And the higher the energy goes, the more the ability to focus on one person flies out the window. It's better to come in with just your own "high energy mode" (certainly higher than her friends who think she's a bit of an oddball), high but still a bit lower than hers. And when you do isolate her, you have to make sure she "lands"... lead her into slowly lowering her energy to a level that feels more natural for you. Otherwise you probably will have problems with both rapport and establishing a sexually playful frame. Besides, hyperactive or stressed out people usually feel really secure with people who can handle them and calm them down, so that's generally a good way to make them feel good about you :)
I agree that you shouldn't go outside your normal box as far as your energy goes, but I think that you should still literally move her around the scenario a lot more than you would with an average person, to keep things interesting and hold attention a lot better. Plus, it adds chances for more kino.
Author:  dronten [ Mon Nov 30, 2009 5:12 pm ]
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I agree that you shouldn't go outside your normal box as far as your energy goes, but I think that you should still literally move her around the scenario a lot more than you would with an average person, to keep things interesting and hold attention a lot better. Plus, it adds chances for more kino.
Yeah, I can definitely see that working, if you do it the right way. Take her hand and skip away :D
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