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| Author: | rocky9118 [ Thu Sep 10, 2009 10:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I already have a boyfriend |
when a girl says this dreaded line to you .. is it over . is this her way of saying . bitch get away from me . or do you still have a chance .. i thought of a smart response to this ... whenever a girl says this to me .. heres how i will respond HER : i already have a boyfriend ME: what did you say *act like i am trying to control my laughter , hand on my face .. shaking head .. * HER: what ..... ME: did you really think i was trying to pick you up . . just cause' i walked up to you . sat by you started a conversation . ME: like seriously HER : if she starts defending herself ......... if not .. then i dont konw what to do ME: well cause ' i am . . |
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| Author: | Jonas_Al_Caponas [ Thu Sep 10, 2009 11:53 pm ] |
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That's not too bad. I would work with it though, change the delivery. My favorite that I heard was: "I have a boyfriend." "Cool, I have a goldfish." ...Wait for her to look confused and reply. "Wha'?" "Oh sorry, I thought we were talking about things that didn't matter." I doubt it'd ever be sucessful though. But in your case, I might say something like Her: I have a bf. ME: That's interesting, why did you feel you needed to tell me that? Her: Cause you're obviously hitting on me. ME: That's flattering, but no you're not really my type. Her: ...? At this point I'd find other things to talk about. Switch the subject, but look like you're almost bored, and you could walk away at any moment. I think that'd be the best way. |
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| Author: | Slywalker [ Fri Sep 11, 2009 12:41 am ] |
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Go to the routine section. look through JayWa's routines (its a sticky), he has a couple of great replies for this! |
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| Author: | rocky9118 [ Mon Sep 14, 2009 5:07 am ] |
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Nice read all of the 17pages on jay wa thread I was hitting on this chick at school long story short she did not flat out say she has a boyfriend but she somewhat inserted it in the conversation she said something along the lines of "I go to the film theatre with my boyfriend all the tome" for which my response was that's nice and changed the subject Is it game over though f a girl mentions boyfriend |
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| Author: | Slywalker [ Mon Sep 14, 2009 5:45 am ] |
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Quote: Nice read all of the 17pages on jay wa thread
Judging by your question I would assume you are somewhat new in the business, that's not a bad thing at all I'm just guessing.I was hitting on this chick at school long story short she did not flat out say she has a boyfriend but she somewhat inserted it in the conversation she said something along the lines of "I go to the film theatre with my boyfriend all the tome" for which my response was that's nice and changed the subject Is it game over though f a girl mentions boyfriend If the game is over or not is totally up to you, I know really good PUAs who won't stop at anything, because they don't have that moral dilemma. Personally when I approach a set that turns out to be a couple or a girl with a boyfriend I take Style's advice, I ask them if they are serious and if they are I wish them good luck and move on. If you want to sleep with her and fuck up her relationship and take her away from her boyfriend then use your best gaming skills and do it! There are no written rules for the life of a PUA that says anything about this. My personal oppinion is leave couples alone but this will be your choice!! |
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| Author: | Xafc [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 8:06 pm ] |
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Best response to IHAB I ever heard was: "Why are you telling me this?" It turns the tables beautifully. If she gives some variant of "You seemed interested," then you can neg with "You're a little presumptuous." If she says nothing, you shrug with a puzzled look that conveys "What's with this chick" and change the subject. No matter how she responds, she DLVs and you DHV! Beautiful! |
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| Author: | SummerSheep [ Tue Nov 23, 2010 2:02 am ] |
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[quote="Xafc"]Best response to IHAB I ever heard was: "Why are you telling me this?" It turns the tables beautifully. If she gives some variant of "You seemed interested," then you can neg with "You're a little presumptuous." If she says nothing, you shrug with a puzzled look that conveys "What's with this chick" and change the subject. No matter how she responds, she DLVs and you DHV! Beautiful![/quote beautiful indeed |
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| Author: | Two Step [ Tue Nov 23, 2010 4:07 am ] |
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Or you could just not even acknowledge she said this. Its usually a shit test. Most girls dont have bfs. If you feel the need to defend yourself to a stranger you have the wrong mindset anyways. Just keep plowing like a man till she walks away |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed Nov 24, 2010 12:35 am ] |
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Quote: Or you could just not even acknowledge she said this.
Correct.If she says it early on in the conversation, then it means "back off" e.g. if you went in indirectly, you telegraphed too much interest too early. Remember to open over the shoulder, casually, and keep your body language pointed away from the set, turning in as you progress the interaction. The solution to this is to ignore it. Just don't say anything. Continue by changing the subject, telling a DHV story, doing a cold read, or whatever. If she mentions a boyfriend later on in a conversation in a "in passing" kind of way, chances are she actually does. Guess what? First time, just ignore it. Continue gaming. If she puts up legitimate resistance to kino escalating past sexual, n-closing, etc. then keep playing-push pull and remain unreactive. If you are honestly getting IOIs, she's clearly into you, but it seems like she's REALLY honestly been going out with a guy for a year and a half (remember how you're supposed to befriend the obstacle(s)? A good opportunity to get the inside scoop subtly without bringing it up with your target) then for fucks sake, exchange contact info and FRIENDZONE HER. Remember, guys get LJBFed most often because they remain in rapport too long and never show they are man enough to sexually escalate. They look like pussies to the girl and therefore unattractive. If you've been gaming this girl, there's mutual attraction, and you've sexually escalated correctly, but there's honestly a boyfriend in the way, you're better off staying friends with her (the kind of friend who is flirty and sexual as well as funny and interesting), going to her parties, gaming her friends, and then when she breaks up with that BF, she's fair game! |
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| Author: | jazz25 [ Wed Nov 24, 2010 12:37 am ] |
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me too, his name is blondguy |
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