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Author:  disoblige [ Tue Aug 25, 2009 2:04 am ]
Post subject:  Will this opener work? I desperately need help.
I am very confident this girl across the street has a crush on me. I want to make sure. I am thinking of giving her a poem. I know her in high school. She kept watch me in her window.


"Infinite in mystery is the gift of the goddess,
We seek it thus, and take to the sky.
Ripples form on the water's surface
The wandering soul knows no rest."

myemail

Is it a good idea?
Author:  nobody [ Tue Aug 25, 2009 3:52 am ]
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hum... okay... well I don't really know about high school game... BUT personnally this poem miss somethings, like: passion, feelings, things that relate to her.

but i would'nt give a poem. just get a date with her and if she gives you IOI's, go for the kiss with a kiss routine or something.
Author:  fox_theone [ Tue Aug 25, 2009 5:30 am ]
Post subject:  Romantic guy huh?
Hey disoblige you sound like one of the romantic guys... that's all good but you should open and talk to her before you hit her with poetry...if you're getting ioi's poetry can be a good dhv but don't let it be the only one. some girls might respond well to poetry some might not.
If i was in your position, next time i catch her looking at me from her window i'd do something funny smile and give her a wink, start talking to her and get a date. you can take her for coffee, to the mall or for a walk or something. It's easy to just happen to be going to walk your dog or something while she's outside doing nothing but that's only if you're not confident on asking her to hang out. Remember you're the prize if you're hanging out you were heading somewhere and she can tag along. If she says no it's her loss, she's missing out on the fun. Let us know how it went man :)
Author:  V3nu [ Tue Aug 25, 2009 7:08 am ]
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Dude just be social, a poem is too hardcore, own experience I did that in junior high didn't go well, and I think it's going to be even more awkward afterward,
here is an opener: (if she lives beside you, just walk in front of her after school or something) and say : do you always follow guys home? (something or just social: hey you go to my school and you live across the street, wow......)
and read COLLEGE DATING DOMINATION by Mark Redman, it is made for College/university game, but after i read it i understood many things about HS social scene, which I didn't get while in HS, and has great openers for HS/College/University

V3nu :twisted:
Author:  nineteen1919 [ Tue Aug 25, 2009 9:38 am ]
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I believe that a poem is coming off as a little bit weird. Just go up to her and introduce yourself. Girls always appreciate when a man radiates confidence.

Or you could go up to her and use a classic opener (my personal favorite): is it weird for a guy to get a tongue piercing?) Then keep the convo going.

Cheers,
Nineteen
Author:  Workaholic [ Tue Aug 25, 2009 1:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Will this opener work? I desperately need help.
Quote:
I am very confident this girl across the street has a crush on me. I want to make sure. I am thinking of giving her a poem. I know her in high school. She kept watch me in her window.


"Infinite in mystery is the gift of the goddess,
We seek it thus, and take to the sky.
Ripples form on the water's surface
The wandering soul knows no rest."

myemail

Is it a good idea?

:shock:


You are cleary very young! But here goes, I am afraid that you are building a future that will be classed as AFC behaviour/being a BETA male, girls will think you are sweet and considerate but this will land you in the friend zone.
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Just go up to her and introduce yourself. Girls always appreciate when a man radiates confidence.
This is the best advice, you are young and need to learn to see how things play out, if this doesn't work it is not the end of the world there are lots of girls you will meet in years to come and it is all about perfecting your skills through all the failed attempts-HELL use the poem see how she reacts if she screams in your face you will learn this was a bad idea!
Author:  desertfox565 [ Wed Aug 26, 2009 4:37 pm ]
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Hey man, I'm also still in high school so I know the situation there.

So what I know about high school is it's all about social proof and fun. Don't rely too much on poetry or stuff, just add her to your social circle, hang out with her for a while, build sexual tension while you're hanging out with her and your friends, but don't only focus on her because it'll be clear that you're hitting on her, and if she's uncomfortable about that, it'll be a little bit harder (something that u don't want, right?). But the game works in high school, because not many people uses qualification stuff, it makes you stand out from the crowd, it's just high school game is more into social proof and fun.

Maybe this doesn't help that much, but at least I can give you the key to high school game (credit to Psych)

For me, I rely on my sense of humour and situational opener to open the girls in my school, and I'm still learning HS game, so I can't really help much but to cheer you up.

Hope this helps,

Best pal,
Steven ;)
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Wed Aug 26, 2009 8:22 pm ]
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poems don't create attraction ..... with your plan your doomed to fail...... openeing up with a poem is just as weird as asking for her to sleep with you.
Author:  seduction82 [ Thu Aug 27, 2009 11:09 am ]
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I am not really sure this will go down well at your age - better for a married couple! Just ask her out on a date, and so long as you don't do anything stupid and don't give all your power away sounds like shes yours for the taking
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