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| Author: | whim [ Fri Jul 31, 2009 7:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | handling pivots |
just wondering how you handle a pivot and stop her from resenting you or feeling that you lead her on or used her in some way? |
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| Author: | Abdul-aAfc [ Fri Jul 31, 2009 8:43 pm ] |
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Please we need a bit more information maybe an example |
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| Author: | whim [ Sat Aug 01, 2009 7:41 pm ] |
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well there is this girl at work that i asked out for coffee, conversatino went really good, but then i lost interest in her so i decided to use her as a pivot, so i asked her out to the bar and told her to bring some of her girlfriends. i just want to make sure i treat her properly and that she doesn't develop feelings for me and start cock blocking me or hating me and thinking i am using her or playig with her, i just want to play it right... |
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| Author: | NonStopReaper [ Sat Aug 01, 2009 7:51 pm ] |
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from they way you put it it seems like she still acting as your pawn. a pivot somewhat knows what you are doing. Now the real question is how to turn a pawn into a pivot. |
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| Author: | alphaguy [ Sat Aug 01, 2009 8:08 pm ] |
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honesty? Doesn't seem too hard for me .. master of accidentally getting into the friend's zone? If you meet someone interesting out on the field with her beside you, Just tell her some feelings, make yourself look a tad bit beta in front of her.. yano tell her HMM I think your friend is really cute.. WHUDDYA THINK I SHOULD DO?. Or something like that. Do it privately and im sure it wont affect your "alpha"' image in front of your target. |
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| Author: | Cornflake [ Sat Aug 01, 2009 11:59 pm ] |
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Do what the pivot does for you. She gets you the pretty laddies, you introduce her to the studs your friends with. By doing that she understands your not interested in her but she will keep you around since you introduce her to quality people similarily to how she does with you. Keeping a pivot happy is probably the easiest for guys who used to accidently get all their prospects in the friends zone. Make her your friend. |
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| Author: | Energy_ [ Sun Aug 02, 2009 10:47 pm ] |
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Quote: Do what the pivot does for you. She gets you the pretty laddies, you introduce her to the studs your friends with. By doing that she understands your not interested in her but she will keep you around since you introduce her to quality people similarily to how she does with you. Keeping a pivot happy is probably the easiest for guys who used to accidently get all their prospects in the friends zone. Make her your friend.
Exactly!Its not even neccesarry to ask for help. If you help her, she will help you. Going into a club with some hot girl-friends makes life a lot easier... |
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