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Author:  SummerNight [ Fri Jul 03, 2009 11:19 am ]
Post subject:  Approach anxiety bc living in small town

Hey, I am scared of approaching bc I live in a city with 100 000 people in it and I'm affraid that if I fck up with the approach then I see those people again and that would be wierd or they'll tell their friends or smth. Any help for that?

Author:  strimpboi [ Fri Jul 03, 2009 2:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approach anxiety bc living in small town

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Hey, I am scared of approaching bc I live in a city with 100 000 people in it and I'm affraid that if I fck up with the approach then I see those people again and that would be wierd or they'll tell their friends or smth. Any help for that?
Doesn't matter. AT ALL. I go to a bar that mostly has about 30 people in it at any given time. I've made approaches there, and pretty much everybody knows everybody there. Nobody gives a shit. After you walk away, they pretty much forget it happened. It's only awkward if you see them again and act awkward.

Author:  WillingLearner [ Fri Jul 03, 2009 3:47 pm ]
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100,000 is still a lot of people. A lot of girls and guess what. It's the same from the girl's point of view. They don't have a huge choice in guys and if you are interesting and cool, which i know you will be, then suddenly you become the biggest catch in your town. The competition is weak so it won't take much to impress them. I think they might also have less of a bitch shield because they would be approached less, because other guys are usually worried about the same thing you are.

If you still feel uneasy, start online.

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