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Author:  Magic-J [ Wed Jul 01, 2009 12:43 am ]
Post subject:  Jealous ex girlfriend opener

Hey,

I've been out and about and whenever I feel like approaching a girl, I do. I've been doing this just to get over my AA. I feel like I have gotten over it now and need to move on to the next step. Now with the jealous ex girlfriend opener, I don't feel like I'm getting anywhere with the conversation. The answers a set gives are usually "Yh I think it's justified" or "She should dump him". Is it something I'm doing wrong? Please help.

Thanks,

Magic-888

Author:  Shadow* [ Wed Jul 01, 2009 8:10 am ]
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You are asking for their opinion on the subject. They gave it to you, what more do you expect from them? Their opinions don't really matter to you anyhow, so Transition from there

Author:  JSmooth [ Thu Jul 02, 2009 3:01 pm ]
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Shadow is right on this. The opinion opener is to get your through the first 3 minutes of conversation from there you need to transition into another opener if they are not hooked or into your normal attraction building material. You don't really care about the opinions and if you discuss it too much the conversation goes dry fast, transition to a new topic before that happens.

A good line to transition with is "How do you all know each other?"

OR - "Oh that reminds me.... (insert DHV story)."

Author:  SirSlick [ Thu Jul 02, 2009 6:50 pm ]
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You need to get off the opener and transition into something else. I like to use observational stuff, like....

"OMG you have the cutest dimples I've seen....in the last 30 seconds."

Author:  Magic-J [ Thu Jul 02, 2009 9:40 pm ]
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Cheers guys :D. For some reason i felt uncomfortable transitioning coz they gave me the "are you gonna go now?" look even though I used a time constraint. But when i read "The opinion opener is to get your through the first 3 minutes of conversation from there you need to transition into another opener if they are not hooked or into your normal attraction building material", I realised I need to get them hooked before I transition.

Great help from all of you, Thanks! :D

Magic-888

Author:  alexgeorge51 [ Tue Jul 07, 2009 3:23 am ]
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Congrats! You do need to get a girl hooked first before you can actually transition from the ex girlfriend talk. You can actually secure the first three minutes and a whole hour of the conversation by:

>complimenting the girl on her looks
>talking about her interests
>and being insightful on the things she wants to know

Author:  alexgeorge51 [ Tue Jul 07, 2009 3:44 am ]
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to secure the first three minutes and maybe a whole hour of conversation:

>compliment the girl on her looks
>talk about her interests
>be insightful on the things she wants to know

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