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| Author: | C_Daddy [ Mon Jun 08, 2009 4:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Massage Therapist needs lines while working on hb's!! |
So as a Massage Therapist I have a great job that allows me to meet tons of women and not only that .. MASSAGE THEM!! whenever I meet a women and they find out what I do they always want a massage. I am just wondering if you guys have any solid lines and ways to build sexual tension (or transition my massages into sex without getting fired lol) while massaging OR being asked to give massages to women...Or anything smooth that I can use while working as a massage therapist to build attraction. Lets hear them boys!! lol |
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| Author: | Kalel [ Wed Jun 10, 2009 8:49 am ] |
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God that's a cool job. I have always heard that it was easy for you guys to immediately sleep with your clients because they are already so stimulated. I think that lines aren't going to work in your situation. In your situation it is all going to be a immediate impression of your body language, followed by a building impression of you based solely on your voice (as I'm assuming they can't see you during the massage). First is that when you meet them you should stand tall and proud, make and hold direct eye contact, smile and hold your smile for a half beat, then introduce yourself. Try to mimic the facial expression of James Bond or some other smooth seducer portrayed in media. They always have a sort of "I'm going to fuck you" look on their face, with a "and you're going to like it" smirk. The eye contact, smile, and facial expression are key, so don't overlook their importance. Women find direct eye contact very sexual, it shows dominance and strength. Sometimes a woman will think less-than-average men are hot simply by how they look at them. But remember direct eye contact means you look directly into her eyes, don't half-ass this and look at her chin or forehead or something, it's does not have the same effect. And the smile signals that you are friendly and open. She may have reservations about trying to connect to you if you seem standoffish or unfriendly, the smile fixes that problem, this way she will assume you want to be friendly with her. Finally the facial expression, you project your intentions toward a woman with your face. If you just want to be friends, use non-threatening friendly facial expression. If you want sex, use sexual facial expressions. If you do this she will immediately be attracted toward you on some primal level, see you as a sexual being, and will be imagining you threw out the massage based upon this first impression. This alone will get them to start thinking about you sexually, but to enhance the tension you must work on your voice. Learn to deepen it and add resonance, like a lover making pillow talk. Your voice must ooze sex. If you can continue to talk with this sexual tone of voice during the massage, she will just get hotter and hotter, the more you massage her. With the right eye contact, voice tonality, and an hour of relaxing rubbing; I'm sure by the end they will be propositioning you for all kinds of things, the very least being your number. The greatest part of all of this is that you aren't really saying anything that would get you fired. You have a look and tone, but your words will remain normal everyday small talk. It's hard to get fired over eye contact and a deep voice, but it's easy to get laid using it. |
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| Author: | C_Daddy [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 5:30 am ] |
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Thanks for the tips man... I was doing that with a 21 year old bartender I was massaging last Saturday and it worked like a charm. Easy number close (although I had to make sure my boss didn't see me scoring the girls number) C_Daddy |
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| Author: | Don D. Flow [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 7:46 am ] |
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Some great advice by Kalel !  Interesting/Cool job as he said, hopefully it will serve you well in your "natural" game approach if you plan on it. As he mentioned body language and tone of voice will be fairly important. Lines could potentially work shortly after the opener, it depends if they SOUND natural. Reherse it if you have to a couple times or until you have it. Make sure your comfortable with using that line ofcourse. |
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| Author: | Redmoxy [ Mon Jun 29, 2009 11:45 am ] |
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Just dont make an orgasm face lol |
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| Author: | Ebomb31 [ Sun Dec 11, 2011 5:43 pm ] |
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I know it's an old thread, but from what I understand of the professional massage world this exact line of thought/action can easily get you sued and even have criminal charges filed against you in the business of the massage world. Honestly, is that risk worth it? There's plenty of ways you can get around that, but the bottom line is if you are accepting money and something sexual goes on it can blowback on both the business and you personally. Learn the difference between sexuality and sensuality and you can be really sensual in the massage with totally innocent/neutral intent and leave the door open for them to come on to you. Just make them feel good man, do what the other guy said about the eye contact and body language. If someone was really interested in a client and wanted to turn it sexual, they'd have to be really careful about it being a non-paid transaction. For everyone not actually licensed, none of this applies. Massage anyone you'd like as dirty as you like. And for those licensed, you only have to watch out in your place of business and/or if it's a client-professional relation. That's really different than personal relations. Source: Looking into becoming a licensed massage therapist myself reading from http://www.male-massage-therapist.com/ |
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| Author: | Kalel [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 8:30 pm ] |
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This is an old post, but I will defend what I said 3 1/2 years ago. He was not attempting to do anything sexual or sensual in the massage itself. But rather he wanted advice on lines he could use outside of massage itself, on women he perceived to be interested in him. And I understood the potential dangers in that. I did not, and do not endorse doing anything during a professional massage to make a woman feel uncomfortable or harassed. That being said, you cannot ignore the fact that single women may be interested in dating their masseur if they find them attractive. In that instance, I gave him good advice on how to appear more attractive to these women, so they would in fact be more attracted to him, more receptive of an innocent and non-threatening date invitation after the massage was done; or much much more ideally would lead them to ask him out. I never told him to make the massage inappropriate or sexual at all. I also steered him away from pickup lines and lewd comments. I didn't even recommend him making the first move. I told him to work on the way he stands, the way he speaks, and the way he makes eye contact. All of which is good advice, which would not result in a lawsuit or termination of employment. But would cause more women to be attracted to him. I gave him specific advice to avoid termination, which would also avoid lawsuits. I also never said to continue on with paid massages after a sexual relationship had been established; though I'll admit I didn't explicitly warn against it. |
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| Author: | ALPHA LiON [ Wed Jan 11, 2012 8:37 pm ] |
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oh your a "massage therapist"? lol jk but seriously I'd be careful like the others said shit could hit the fan offer private massages in your home/clients home if your going to do shit like that |
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