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| Author: | headshrinker [ Fri Apr 24, 2009 6:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Anyone got any actual dance floor openers? |
i've looked in the sticky dance floor topic at the top and there doesn't actually seem to be any actual openers in it! i'm quite a good dancer and fairly good looking guy. when i'm dancing in the club i can see girls checking me out but i have no idea of an appropriate opener to use coz i cant exactly use an opinion opener! can anyone suggest some openers? thx! |
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| Author: | mayers [ Fri Apr 24, 2009 6:33 pm ] |
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First of all, i dont think u can use actual canned openers on dancefloor because usually girls who are dancing are actually having fun so they don t want to be interrupted. so what u need to do is just jump right in the middle of the action with an already built momentum. i guess i'f you have the right attitude you could just grab a girl, reach out for her hand and make her do a little spin... but for us who haven't reached that level of confidence yet there are other options XD. what i usually do, is just A: if there is anything noticeable about the girl or one of her friends i open on that in a C&F way. for example last night i ran into a girl who was dancing by herself with a cranky look on her face. and just aproached and said something like "you know that clubing it's all about having fun right? so what's up with that cranky look on your face?" and then just have some random conversation while dancing right in front of her, 2secs later... you are un fact dancing with her... or B; You are dancing on your own, just having fun, (in fact that night i'd just arrived and was dancing near one of my male friends who was also trying to game some girls) and got close to this group of 3 (2 girls 1 guy) and started dancing near them, with my back facing them. and then just leaned back, threw a funny face at them an there i was right into the set, no words said. after a while they asked if i was dencing with that other guy(my friend) and if we where couple jajajajaja y just laughed my ass off and said "sure, i was dancing with him but im straight, i mean, we don't go arround assuming you are lesbians just because you dance with your girlsfriends do we? all in a C&F attitude. " that said... it's all about C&F, just make sure u are having fun (which is the best way to look like u are having fun) and try to be as flexible as you can! adjust to the different settings like a chameleon XD |
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| Author: | Diego Armando [ Thu May 07, 2009 11:58 am ] |
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For the most part the language of the dancefloor is physical/visual, not verbal. There are a number of ways you can try it on, each varying in how daring and/or conceivably disrespectful they could be viewed a) Walk/dance past and when you get alongside said girl stop, put your hand on her back/hip and compliment her on her dancing. Something like “hey, you dance really well”. Than invite her to dance with you/teach you some of her moves b) Position yourself behind the victim either with your back to her or sideways on. It helps if she has seen you at some point and is aware that you are where you are although this is not necessary. Than playfully bump your ass against hers three or four times (in time to the music is good). This should be done hard enough to jolt her forward a little but not too much. When she turns around make eye contact and wink/smile. You than respond depending on the temperature of her response I) she just ignores you: move on; II) she looks at you and seems slightly amused: tell her you’re sorry, you couldn’t resist, you feel the need to do that every time you see a beautiful woman and ask her if she wants to dance with you III) she bumps asses right back at you: you’re in! Do it back a bit and than start grinding her. c) Simply go up behind the victim and start grinding/rubbing yourself up against her. She’ll either respond or she won’t. The above has worked for me leading to number/full closes. C is particularly good when you’re dealing with someone who looks like she might be a bit stuck up, a bit of an attention seeker or otherwise generally conceited. Two girls grinding/dancing sexually with one another should be approached in this way. They either embrace you as the only guy in there with the balls to do what you just did or they react with disgust. In the case of the latter you just brush them off with “don’t be too hard on yourself” or make the “dirt off ya shoulder” gesture which implies she is a hater. Worst case scenario you have demonstrated in full view of everyone that you’re the only guy in there with balls and prepare for multiple handshakes as a mark of respect from the guys who witnessed it. The good thing about B is it’s handy on a crowded dancefloor. Make your way through the crowd occasionally stopping to bump asses with eligible females. You could do this with a few, chances are at least one will respond. All of the above are helped if you have some sort of original style of dancing. Woman are like small children and an original set of dance moves (particularly those that involve moving your feet) will get their attention like a rattle does when shaken in front of a crying infant. Once you have this you can make one of the above approaches. |
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| Author: | JohnyZulu [ Thu May 07, 2009 3:14 pm ] |
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Let me begin by first stating that I don't dance, so this is not my area of expertise but I can offer some theoretical advice, and also a routine I was working on that I would love to share with those who have the ability to use it. On Opinion Openers: I think you can use then on the dance floor. Here are some I can think of right now: -Hey what do you think of the DJ tonight? I come here all the time, but I'm not sure about his list tonight... -How do you feel about high heels on the dance floor? Because I can tell you the toes on my right foot are strongly apposed to them at the moment! -Do you have more fun dancing alone, with your girlfriends, or with a really fun guy? Her: IDK... tee-hee You: Well, lets work backwards. If you think you can keep up with me we can answer the fun guy part, and if you can't keep up I guess that will lead you to dancing alone. (or something like that, I'm coming up with these on the spot, like I said). -Did you see that girl in the terrible orange jumpsuit? She just took a dive and headbutted this other girl on her way down. I thought a fight was going to break out! But they were both pretty terrible dancers so I think the whole thing was just karma... (Start dancing, maybe move into a karma/fate/ or some kind of magic or spirituality routine? ) * That might seem like a familiar structure, and yeah it is my attempt to alter Mystery's fighting girls routine to the situation... Alright, that's as far as I'm going to go with that. Maybe they don't seem that great, but I can tell you that from my experience, especially with openers, it doesn't matter what you say it's how you say it. Just wanted to demonstrate you can always find something appropriate to ask about. Now I mentioned a dance floor routine I was working on. I had this happen to me a week or so ago and decided that it needed to be a routine. I was out with my friend Jess (who is a natural pivot, great at it and I now LOVE going gaming with her). She tells me there is an HB9 at the table behind me, so in the middle of our conversation I turn around really quickly with a big smile and ask the three set of women including the HB9 how they feel about pet rats. They respond, start talking and I slide back to carry on the conversation. Out of the blue Jess comes over and joins in, and now we are a five set with me and four women. Good preselection and social proof. Now out of the blue the HB9 goes "Lets dance!" I responded how I always do, with "I really wish I could, but maybe you noticed... I'm white." She laughed and took my hand and was like "So are we, come on." She then took me across the bar, down a hall and onto the dance floor (I didn't even know the place had a dance floor!) While our five set is walking through the bar I explain I really can't dance, and the girls say not to worry about it, they will teach me. So we get to the dance floor and sure enough simply by saying "So what is the first step?" I have four girls all over me, teaching me to dance. This was a lot of Kino, obviously with girls touching me and grinding and all that good stuff. I was thinking about it though because it is also a compliance test, and it is making her invest in you. So the routine needs a DHV, which is where a good dancer comes in. You tell the girls to teach you to dance, they are all over you, it's very good. Then after a few minutes you start dancing well, and when they are so impressed with your rapid progress you shrug it off with "Guess I'm a fast learner..." I don't know, I'm not a dancer, but you get the idea. I know you get the kino from dancing anyway, but this routine is almost like using yourself as a lock-in prop, and as I said makes them comply to your request, and invest. I suppose it is also an opportunity for her to DHV and earn your IOIs. If anyone has any thoughts on the routine, I'd love to hear them. It's more a theory at the moment, but I think it has promise. So to bring it back around and close, just look around and observe your surroundings. There has to be something you can ask an opinion question about and they will all do. The music, DJ, the lights (That makes me think of a good one. Do you think the lights are too low? I was just molested by a women I thought was pretty cute, then we danced into the light and I almost fainted... Do you think they put the lights low on purpose?), what's on the tv or whatever visual media... ask about girls clothes, make up some story about how your friend met the love of their life on this dance floor right here, open with the opinion "Do you believe in fate?" And then move into the routine about on this very spot your buddy met his wife. I mean, the sky is the limit you just have to think outside the box. Don't be afraid to get creative. Go to the club a little earlier before you normally would when it isn't packed so you can look around and get some material. Hope that helps. |
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| Author: | Archangel White Rose [ Fri May 08, 2009 2:29 am ] |
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"You know, most girls like to dance to the music." "What?" "You obviously are dancing off beat to the music" |
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| Author: | Andy91 [ Fri May 08, 2009 9:50 pm ] |
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I've gone dancing since I was 14 (I live in a country where living is not actually forbidden). You can't talk on the dance floor. If you try, you are being "beta" because you seem really needy. All you have there is body language and physical attraction. |
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| Author: | burnz [ Fri May 08, 2009 10:13 pm ] |
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I go out with groups of girls alot. Dance floor isn't about smooth lines or creeping up on chicks. When they are dancing together you almost never want to try to smooth your way in there unless you are rediculously good looking. The best way that works for me and that I see is you gotta dance and have a lot of fun. Best way is to dance by yourself. I know it seems gay. But it works. You dance by your self and you have dance battles with girls. You don't need to hardly talk at all. You talk with your dance moves. Girls will usually start flocking towards your section of the dance floor. |
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| Author: | pope23 [ Sat May 09, 2009 3:29 pm ] |
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Quote: I go out with groups of girls alot. Dance floor isn't about smooth lines or creeping up on chicks. When they are dancing together you almost never want to try to smooth your way in there unless you are rediculously good looking. The best way that works for me and that I see is you gotta dance and have a lot of fun. Best way is to dance by yourself. I know it seems gay. But it works. You dance by your self and you have dance battles with girls. You don't need to hardly talk at all. You talk with your dance moves. Girls will usually start flocking towards your section of the dance floor.
I had good moves already in my afc days, when i was just dancing alone and my friends were leaning at the bar girls start dancing close to you on the floor, pointing at you and try to make eye contact. Burnz is right about this.An opener I like to use on the dance floor is saying: 'Hey, you gotta slow down a bit' - 'Why?" 'With your moves you make all the other girls on the dance floor look embarrassing' A nice move that is not so hard and that can give you a lot of attention is the arm wave. It also funny to hold eachothers hands and do it with other people. Look on Arm wave tutorial on youtube and you will get tons of hits. |
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| Author: | Marvel [ Sat May 09, 2009 10:53 pm ] |
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simplistic-dance-floor-opener-as-easy-a ... 42296.html See above. Almost anything should work...in my opinion...if they were just dancing...and then they stopped for the next song...you usually can assume they don't like the that song....then you just go up to them and say, "do you know/like this song?"...dadada..."I know, me too...." and off ye goes.... ....another thought off the top of my head is.....using your phone to text draft a message (usually because it's too loud to be heard with all the music)..something like, "Not sure why I am so shy to talk to girls, lol.... let's dance." And of course show it to them...usually her friends will assume you know her hence the reason for the phone .....and off ye goes. I've danced with girls and caught up with them later on too...."Oh, your silk girl" ..."what?"...."you move like silk when you dance." ....calibrate..and off ye goes! Hope that helps. |
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| Author: | Marvel [ Sat May 09, 2009 10:53 pm ] |
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simplistic-dance-floor-opener-as-easy-a ... 42296.html See above. Almost anything should work...in my opinion...if they were just dancing...and then they stopped for the next song...you usually can assume they don't like the that song....then you just go up to them and say, "do you know/like this song?"...dadada..."I know, me too...." and off ye goes.... ....another thought off the top of my head is.....using your phone to text draft a message (usually because it's too loud to be heard with all the music)..something like, "Not sure why I am so shy to talk to girls, lol.... let's dance." And of course show it to them...usually her friends will assume you know her hence the reason for the phone .....and off ye goes. I've danced with girls and caught up with them later on too...."Oh, your silk girl" ..."what?"...."you move like silk when you dance." ....calibrate..and off ye goes! Hope that helps. |
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| Author: | rocky9118 [ Sat May 09, 2009 11:38 pm ] |
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ed: tell her you’re sorry, you couldn’t resist, you feel the need to do that every time you see a beautiful woman and ask her if she wants to dance with you ___________- pure gold |
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| Author: | AfcGalway [ Sun May 10, 2009 10:46 am ] |
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Quote: "You know, most girls like to dance to the music."
I like where you're going, but I think it may be a bit long winded. Neg openers are SO much better than the ass-kissy shit some people are suggesting. I usually go with:"What?" "You obviously are dancing off beat to the music" "You suck at dancing" or "You're a terrible dancer" They both work wonderfully. |
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| Author: | D_C [ Wed May 13, 2009 1:43 pm ] |
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Lol i have tried the "Oh come you suck at dancing" line once... I didn't get a very good response from it! The hb7 stop dancing immediately and left the dance floor lol, I kept dancing and headed to the bar a few minutes later. The hb7 and her friend hb8 approached me and asked why i said she sucked at dancing. I just said it was a neg & explained to them what a neg was, then kept the convo going from there. In the end i kiss closed her friend (hb8) gorgeous Australian brunette. So i guess it kinda worked lol. |
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