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Author:  James The Third [ Sun Mar 22, 2009 3:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Nice method to get women to approach you
I actually discovered this brilliant method by accident.

I was at bar and I just bought a vodka/redbull, and I got like 1 euro back in change, but I didn't bother to take it, so I just left it on the bar.

A cute blonde noticed and actually poked me/grabbed my shoulder (kino) and said that I forgot my money, and I was totally DHV'ing by just shrugging and mumbling something like "yeah whatever" - while maintaining a small, calm smile. For some reason I didn't carry the conversation further, but I totally could have :)

So with this single euro, I basically made her think I was the richest guy in town, and I got her reaching out for my shoulder like it was a matter of life and death.

Please try it in the field and tell me how it works out.


NOTE: Of course you should make sure a girl stands next to you when you do this trick, or nobody will notice you forgot your money :p
Author:  Dr_Swing [ Sun Mar 22, 2009 5:13 pm ]
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Sorry mate, got to be honest here, i dont consider this an opener, you left money out and someone pointed it out. If your considering throwing money around to open sets in the future i'd have to say you need to work on your routines amigo...

try something like "Oh, im sorry i thought you were a waitress and wanted a tip" with a smile and pick that money back up instead of trying to act rich.

This way, you actually bother to give her a flirty responce and give her a chance of replying.
Author:  Drakelet [ Sun Mar 22, 2009 5:54 pm ]
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I was totally DHV'ing by just shrugging and mumbling something like "yeah whatever"
Since when was being unsure, mumbling and saying "whatever" a DHV?
Author:  silverito [ Sun Mar 22, 2009 7:15 pm ]
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I was totally DHV'ing by just shrugging and mumbling something like "yeah whatever"
Since when was being unsure, mumbling and saying "whatever" a DHV?
he menat that DHV is that you are rich and don't care about one eur in change
Author:  Spark89 [ Sun Mar 22, 2009 8:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Sorry dude
Doubt it would work because she might just think your a div! or see that your trying to get her attention before leaving the money and think oh hes a div. Either way you could come across as a fool. Saying that however its along the right kind of lines just take out the money bit! And well most of the rest of it! Could start though dude!

Spark.
Author:  Marlon [ Sun Mar 22, 2009 11:05 pm ]
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Umm isn't that called a tip. In North America it would be almost rude to take that dollar.
Author:  James The Third [ Mon Mar 23, 2009 5:32 pm ]
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The point isn't neccesarily to say that you're rich, the point is that she will open you!


"If your considering throwing money around to open sets in the future i'd have to say you need to work on your routines amigo..."

Why in the world is that so??

ALOT of pickup artist spend money on extra necklaces they can give away to the girl along with a "Don't be a thief"!


"Either way you could come across as a fool"

Not true, you're general attitude, what you say, and your body posture desides whether you're a fool or not. I certainly wasn't a fool when I did the trick, you know why? Because I didn't act like one.


Please try out this thing with enthusiasm before you utterly reject it :)
Author:  TheBlackSwan [ Mon Mar 23, 2009 6:07 pm ]
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New to the Forum so pick and choose what you want out of this.

in my exprience money won't get you anywhere.

if you have money theres nothing wrong with that but throwing it around will look flashy but at the end of the day it makes you seem pretty shallow.

i could be wrong but saying yeah whatever and letting her have it is a dlv. Its your money, you don't know her, so it makes it appear that your trying to buy her attention with ! euro before you even know if its worth it!

personally i would have rolled with it saying I hoped youd notice (with the same sly smile you described) take the dollar back and go right into your routine. Therefore you look like your actions caused her to come to you (dhv). I wouldn't linger at this part to long so a quick follow up is going to be essential if you want to keep her hooked.

hope this helped

{swan}
Author:  Dr_Swing [ Mon Mar 23, 2009 6:17 pm ]
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"If your considering throwing money around to open sets in the future i'd have to say you need to work on your routines amigo..."

Why in the world is that so??

ALOT of pickup artist spend money on extra necklaces they can give away to the girl along with a "Don't be a thief"!
I dont know man, heres how i see it;

The difference is when we spend money on necklaces and peacocking stuff its generally considered a long term investment and the "thief" routine is a very humble way to ensure future contact.

Leaving money on a bardisk isnt


Now as i said, i leave tip. In my opinion, leaving tip shows you are socially oriented person.

Tipping to get noticed by women doesnt.


Just my take on it, the opener i mentioned earlier in this thread is one i actually do sometimes, i think it displays way higher value then leaving money just to say "whatever".
Author:  James The Third [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 12:35 am ]
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"If your considering throwing money around to open sets in the future i'd have to say you need to work on your routines amigo..."

Why in the world is that so??

ALOT of pickup artist spend money on extra necklaces they can give away to the girl along with a "Don't be a thief"!
I dont know man, heres how i see it;

The difference is when we spend money on necklaces and peacocking stuff its generally considered a long term investment and the "thief" routine is a very humble way to ensure future contact.

Leaving money on a bardisk isnt


Now as i said, i leave tip. In my opinion, leaving tip shows you are socially oriented person.

Tipping to get noticed by women doesnt.


Just my take on it, the opener i mentioned earlier in this thread is one i actually do sometimes, i think it displays way higher value then leaving money just to say "whatever".

Damn lol, I think I gotta film me doing this method, 'cause it isn't flashy or taggy or pathetic at all. I understand that it can be hard to picture from a text on a forum.
Author:  forefit [ Thu Mar 26, 2009 5:52 pm ]
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Just because she grabbed you by the shoulder doesn't mean its kino. It might have been loud in the club and this was the only way to get your attention. She will kino you if she sexually attracted and from what you have said it doesnt appear she was that into you.
Author:  foxratpig [ Wed Jun 10, 2009 3:05 am ]
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(Wow, my first post)

I actually think this is a good idea as long as it's handled correctly. In many countries outside North America, tipping is not compulsory or expected. You've established physical contact if she touches you on the shoulder. I think the best response would be to genuinely thank her and say something along the lines of, "It's good to see there are still honest people in the world." Or something of that ilk. You can tell her that as a thank you, you are going to buy her a drink (generally I wouldn't do this, but I think in this case it's warranted)
Author:  kcdclan [ Wed Jun 10, 2009 7:36 am ]
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I don't thinks its DHV its more of a alpha male thing.
Still she didnt think omg he is hot i better give him his money.
It was more like omg that person left his money.
She would have done that for anyone but it's way to meet a nice girl i guess.
Since they are nice enuff to tell you that you left it you going whatever is being a dick to them because they are trying to help you.
This is the fine line of cocky cool and a straight up dick.
I dont know about you other guys but I would have just said thanks and gave her a good eye contact and said somthing smart. then it woulda been on.
I'm not trying to down you but there is a fine line between dick and alpha and girls are way better and drawing it then us.
Please tell us what kinda respone you got from her when you said that.
What kinda expression if she was supprised or what.
I cant really say to much on it if there isn't much detail.
If she moved back or moved tword you rolled her eyes or what.
It's key to pay attintion to these things when interacting.
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