I do agree when those have said you don't have to be a good dancer to hit the dance floor. I know how to dance, but pretending you cant, can seduce manya broad....Allow me to share some experience
I just moved to New Jersey from Brooklyn, and my friends from Long Island (my hometown) came to the dirty Jer-z to visit. We agreed that our goal would be, to "own the dancefloor". Now I know how to dance, Vinnie aka Vunsunta and Joe Hoose aka Ho Juice cannot, at all, whatsoever. So be it! The idea was, once they were comfortable, we'd start moving to the floor. I got a couple drinks in them, buzzed, and spent the time trying to loosen up my two men so theyd be having a good time, genuinely. They took notice of the ladies who were strewn about the dancefloor, havin grindparties in front of an entire wlal of guys who were holding their drinks in front of them (never do this as it acts like a barrier between you and the world, shows discomfort). None of these tools were getting in on it. Oh did I mention we were wearing fake beards, suit jackets and long blonde whigs? This is typical of my friends and I, and have one that for many years to entertain ourselves, not women. It plays to our advantage though.
So my men are smiling and confident, they had no idea i was setting them up to attract women to them, as they have terrible luck with them. I move to an open spot, and start dancing to the beat to open space for them to join me, all the guys are scowling upon me of course. I move to the beat and take wide steps so people start moving, as i said, to make room. It also served as me marking my spot, and the women noticed i was here to have fun, with or without them. Then Vunsunta and Ho Joose came and i start doing the sprinkler, a classic dancing "no no" with a huge smile on my face as they laughed. Then Ho Joose started with the robot, incredibly off-beat, which didnt matter because 2 women responed by following with their interpretations of the robot. I acknowledged them with a smile, and kept doing whatever obnoxious dance moves i wanted, making sure only to try and entertain my two friends. We were all having fun, and we were then surrounded by women who were wanting in on our terrible dancing. As most of the men scowled on the side, there were a few random guys who saw us, and joined us in our horrendous convulsing, all with big smiles. It made us icons for the night, and everyone love/hated us. Either way we got strong reactions, all because we wanted to have fun. Next thing you know Vunsunta and Ho Joose had picked up women without even realizing they games them. I explained to them, that they were acting natural, and thats how its done. They have a new perspective on things and rest assured that when we go out, owning the dancefloor is our main priority.
When you own it, all others who come on, look to your approval to be there, an when someone who can dance better comes and tries to show you up, all you have to do, is dance worse, entirely on purpose...and people will know you ae there for your own amusement. Thats sexy. I fondled (my word for hook up) 3 women that night, Vinnie and Joe got their as well. Closing was natural for them, that night.
I hope this helps you out brother, have fun, for you.
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