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| Author: | darius [ Tue Apr 11, 2006 3:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | IOI laced w/Vagueness |
I was studying Mystery Method today, and I hit a jackpot in my previous thinking on communicating attraction towards a target. As males, we like/and are used to applying logic to every situation. Ex. "Why did you hit the wall and throw that book across the room?" Male: would likely answer, "because the Yankees won, etc" Female: answer would be more like "because I am upset/angry/etc" Females tend to focus on the emotional response, without evening searching for a logical reason as to why they acted in a certain way. As males, we are used to explaining our actions in a logical way..aka "i like you because you are pretty and fun to be around." A woman says "i like you because you make me feel happy" As Mystery suggests, during A3 or even C1, make ALL of your comments about the two of you or her very vague and emotionally anchored. In a sense, give her the same type of compliment a woman gives you...aka "I am attracted to you, but I just don't know why" "I just feel a real connection to you, and I have no idea why" These comments don't feel natural to us, not even for me typing them out right now. But these are the comments that a woman soaks up. It gives them something to really think on. In the phrase "I like you because you are smart, funny, and successful" the key phrase is "I like you"...not the reasons why. Unless the girl has portrayed or indicated that she WANTS a guy to like her because she is "smart, funny, and successful", you are not gaining any ground by giving her logic behind your interest. Leave it vague for her, so she can think about what qualities make you are interested in her. The important thing is that you let her know you are interested [IOI], but don't miss an opportunity to also create more intrigue and rapport. DON'T LOGIC A GIRL TO DEATH ABOUT ANYTHING! ALWAYS TRY TO KEEP THINGS ON THE VAGUE OR MYSTERIOUS...GIVE HER A PUZZLE!!! |
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| Author: | cepeda [ Mon Sep 18, 2006 3:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Its true |
My expirience its quite bitter, but I'll share the info since its quite useful: My ex-girlfriend started makingout after 1 week we broke up with a guy that opened her a book of poems, specifically one called "soneto XVII" from Pablo Neruda which says: "I love you without knowing how, when, or where from" As a revenge I'm planning on using it on my next target. Here is the complete poem if you want to use it in your next date: I do not love you as if you were a rose made of salt or topaz or an arrow of carnations spreading fire: I love you the way certain dark things are loved, secretly, between the shadow and the soul. I love you like the plant that never blooms, but conceals within itself the light of those flowers; and, thanks to your love, the darkness of my body houses the suffocating aroma that arose from the earth. I love you without knowing how, when, or where from; I love you straightforwardly, with neither problems nor pride: I love you thus, not knowing how to love you otherwise than this way whereby neither ‘you’ nor ‘I’ exist… so close that your hand on my chest is mine, so close that your eyes grow heavy when I tire. |
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| Author: | Rayovac [ Mon Sep 18, 2006 3:39 am ] |
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i think you're on to something here |
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| Author: | Sky [ Mon Sep 18, 2006 7:31 am ] |
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Don't worry cepeda, maybe you'll find the right one soon. Thanks for the poem. Truly fascinating tactic. |
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| Author: | StormSlayer [ Tue Feb 06, 2007 1:34 pm ] |
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i thnk ur tring too hard |
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