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Author:  SeekNDestroy [ Mon Feb 09, 2009 6:33 pm ]
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Im not a supporter of canned openers.

My game was usually (was, because Im in a stable relationship now) to try to get in a woman's mind. For example, if she is looking at a car, I would say something like: "I dont think If I like that beatle in blue, what do you think". The best openers are when you can get into her mind, and see what she is thinking. What I do is associate an object to her. Anything she is looking at, then start from there.

Another example that happened to me once:

I was at a party and some guy pushed (not intentoinally of course) a girl next to me, so I looked at her, and she gave an angry look at the guy (the guy didnt even looked at her, and continue walking). What I said was:

Me: Rude bastard...
Her: Fuck yeah, I hate him...
Me: And he didnt even apologize...
Her: You know what, thats the thing that pisses me off the most!
Me: I know, come, so you dont get hit again (i grabbed her hand and isolated her).

So, try not to learn openers by heart, cause that isnt natural game. Well, thats my opinion :)


CYA!

Author:  Charmez [ Mon Feb 09, 2009 9:41 pm ]
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Thats a good tip, instantly builds rapport between you and her

Author:  Handcuff [ Mon Feb 09, 2009 9:56 pm ]
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I Like it, sometimes can openers don't seem to fit but this has got some flow to it lol

Author:  paradiseracing [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 3:39 pm ]
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Don't look too much into openers. It seems like people really over think these things. All you need to do is initiate the conversation. "What do you think of this car in blue?" is not far off from "let me get your opinion on something, what do you think of this car in blue?" It's not really what you say but how you say it. Humans are social animals and they tend to be friendly because that's what our society demands. Women of beauty are social butterflies and find that conversation comes naturally, you should also. Deliver the opener in an energetic and playful tone, don't forget the smile, and you will get a positive response. I agree that some openers are more appropriate in certain scenes, but don't forget the objective. Just start a conversation, it's that simple.

Author:  Pod [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 3:47 am ]
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Try just saying "hi" :)

If you do it right, anything works. This has been said a million times, and I'll repeat it again. It's not about what you say, it's how you say it. It's how you carry yourself.

Author:  paradiseracing [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 1:13 pm ]
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The thing you have to be careful about with "Hi" is that you don't really have a direction to take to the conversation yet. With a specific opener, you can prepare for responses and pretty soon your conversation seems natural. This is a great method for those with AA and using an opener instantly gets the women interested. If this is done correctly, the rest will be natural. But, don't forget that Hi is still an opener because it can initiate the chat but I just feel it's pretty weak as far as further steps that you want to take.

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