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| Author: | sorin93 [ Sat Jan 17, 2009 10:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Do You Guys Approach Older HBs? |
i'm still in high school but i see a lot of HB's in their 20's at the mall and the places i hang out. should i approach grown women even though i'm in high school? and do you guys approach HB's that are older than you?[/b] |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Sun Jan 18, 2009 12:31 am ] |
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Yup. But that is mostly because I tend to prefer older girls tho. |
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| Author: | pedro2385 [ Thu Jan 22, 2009 1:35 pm ] |
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If you want to approach older ladies then why not. I prefer girls around same age as myself but then i have approached a few older ladies who have caught my eye. Thats the beauty of pick up it will work on all women. Therefore go for any girl you like. It does not matter. 
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| Author: | Volturi [ Thu Jan 22, 2009 2:15 pm ] |
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I don't think girls in general care if they date younger guys, though I do think they care about what other people think at first. My sister is 26 and dates a guy who is 21 and she was very reluctant to tell anyone his age until they'd met him, so that they wouldn't assume that he would immature and stuff. I think that you'll probably want to be honeset about your age from the beginning, but maybe insinuate that you've dated older women before and that it's not a big deal. By doing that, you make it easier for them to accept your age and also wipes out a lot of the preasumptions about immaturity on your part. 
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| Author: | timmydCA [ Thu Jan 22, 2009 3:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Do You Guys Approach Older HBs? |
Quote: i'm still in high school but i see a lot of HB's in their 20's at the mall and the places i hang out.
Hi Sorin 93, Older Women. Since I was born I've always had an eye for older women. should i approach grown women even though i'm in high school? and do you guys approach HB's that are older than you?[/b] At 19 I dated my first older girl, she was 26. From there it was a snowball affect. . . Many times men get turned down before even approaching the girl. Sometimes it's because they look too young. Or they don't "Look Manly" enough. You may not know this but you are always being judged long before coming up to women. (older or younger) What you need is Swagger. What is it? It’s everywhere these days: songs, shows and even politicians have it. (Bill Clinton being my favorite) It’s the way you speak, walk, and act. Basically, the way you carry yourself and the things you do that represent who you are. Other than my Fun Vibe and Conversing Skills, another thing I am known for is my “Advanced Swagger.” Swagger is broken up into several parts: Facial Expressions Tonality The way you walk Body Language If have a good balance in all these areas, I guarantee most of the time your age won't even come up in a sentence. And if it does, do the following. 1. Let her know age doesn't bother you because you've always been attracted to older women. 2. Tell her WHY older women are the type you normally go for. Example: I used to date a women in her late twenties. She would always tell me " Tim, I love my age . . . I feel I am old enough to know better but young enough to have fun. " This is something she believed and lived, ever since, I found a new respect for women in their (insert the age of the girl your trying to date). What's important is that you give a very good reason of why you love older women. The important thing is to be the first one to talk about the topic. If you carry yourself correctly while expressing you've dated older women in the past. Then there is no reason why an older girl isn't going to go for you. |
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| Author: | iPike [ Thu Jan 22, 2009 4:38 pm ] |
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Whenever you approach the older ones, you bring up the opportunity for a great push-pull. HB: you look a little young You: aww really? At first glance you didn't seem to be that superficial (neg)... You just looked like a fun person to talk to (pull) She'll probably still be concerned with age but have her guess while giving answers like "way off" or "close" without actually agreeing. Now you've got some mystery and rapport built. TimmydCA hit it right on the head with havin swagger during the approach |
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| Author: | BK Legendary [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 5:13 am ] |
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Haha nice breadown of swag dude |
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| Author: | hurley509 [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 6:28 am ] |
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im 22 but if they look good and are under 40 |
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| Author: | The Omega Man [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 11:48 am ] |
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I've got a friend who's 15 yrs older than me, and when we go out I open sets of older HBs that are nearer his age range. Personally, I like older women. I find they've less of a shield. |
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