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| Author: | slyguy [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 5:33 am ] |
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so i'll talk to girls, i was talking to a girl at the gym today, but one thing i notced is that a lot of times i'll ask a girl a question but them imply like i know the answer. like me: "o so what are you doing after the gym, just going home?" i do this like all the time. i'm guessing cause i'm nervous about having nothing to talk about so i take it upon myself to keep blurting out words. should i just chill and stop w/ the implying? is it good at all? |
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| Author: | Dangerboy [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 9:22 am ] |
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sometimes implying can be useful if used as a slight neg... "so what are you getting up to this weekend, staying in and watching tv?" other times it can just lead to one word answers, which you've probably found out for yourself... |
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| Author: | undefined [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 7:49 pm ] |
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try relaxing, i know it's harder than it sounds and if you can't stop the blurbs, go for funny/sarcastic ones. "where you going after the gym, MacDonalds?" with that you'll have something to talk about like, how people may go to the gym often but still eat junk food or the silly, Super Sized BigMac, Large Fries and a "diet" coke sarcasm and jokes always seems to ease a conversation for me |
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| Author: | slyguy [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 9:58 pm ] |
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i dont know why this happend .. but i used to be able to talk to girls no problem .. i havent gotten any in a while tho so i'm like off my game. i gotta relax more talkni to them ... or spend more time w/ them |
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| Author: | samex [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 10:56 pm ] |
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be aware of what your asking and when. If its like 9pm at the gym on a monday night and you ask what are you doing after the gym... its comes off as a pretty dull question. A whole days of events have gone by that you can easily talk about, or something exciting thats coming up on the weekend. |
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