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| Author: | belondon [ Sat Jan 03, 2009 3:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | gaming too much |
guys any suggestions to bringing back the fun I think i must be gaming too much, cos after i have opened a set, I get bored and basically shake hands wish them a good night and go back to my mates or leave... only if they are very interesting do i stay. these days i am trying to find harder and harder sets to open, then when i am controlling there night, i think, humm too easy and leave. last night I was daring myself and my mate to do mad openings. e.g. I opened 2 girls HB7-8 who had a guy sitting in the middle of them with his arms behind them both - looking all "cool and shit" and that p1ssed me off. I also opened a 4 set who were obvious b1tches hb10s... just for the test... i got offered a seat twice and still left ... I have a few f@ck buddies and these might be making m lazy... i need a cure... |
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| Author: | Abdul-aAfc [ Sat Jan 03, 2009 4:34 pm ] |
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What you need is a different reason to game. before i am sure you gamed only to get f closes. So maybe if you now decided to try and get a gf it will solve your problem |
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| Author: | belondon [ Sat Jan 03, 2009 6:29 pm ] |
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a gf.... oh jeez.... thats serious stuff. |
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| Author: | L.H. [ Sat Jan 03, 2009 7:21 pm ] |
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Id love to see some pro answers on this one. However, I think Abdul is right.. |
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| Author: | HomeWrecker [ Sun Jan 04, 2009 5:50 am ] |
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Abdul I reckon is on the right track. I have this problem too. I can open a lot of groups, get numbers and meet up with girls and then sleep with them fairly easily, a bit of effort is required though. This results in my friends asking me why I don't do it more often. What made you game in the first place? For me it was likely insecurity. Insecurity over the fact that I hadn't been with many women, Insecurity of dying alone, insecurity about my desiribility and being sick and tired of being alone. Which points to two motives. One I felt the need to compete with my mates and to qualify myself to the world. Secondly, I felt the need to give myself a worthwhile purpose. If you have read the game by Neil Strauss you might have read the line: "We may have been supermen in the club, but on the inside, we were rotting." Change your beleifs and you will likely get over this problem. For me I decided that I enjoy entertaining people, communicating with them and showing them a good time (girls usually ask for my number these days). I might also find someone I have a serious connection with. If something happens, it happens. If not well thats ok too. It's not really a pick up artist approach but it works for me. |
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| Author: | NiceGuyWithAnEdge [ Wed Jan 07, 2009 12:22 am ] |
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I seem to have the opposite problem. I get into sets and usually shake hands and leave for awhile not because I find it to be too easy, but rather because I find the people I'm talking to be boring as hell. I'm thinking that I won't find the kind of girl I'm looking for in a bar scene, since I'm lookin for the kind of girl who dosen't go to bars or clubs. I'm looking for a deep girl, and most of them who frequent the campus bars seem to be shallow. At least you're getting F closes - right now I'm not able to nor would I want an F close with some of the mindless filth which is walling around in the campus bars. |
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