Well, I'm gonna be honest with you here.
1) Sometimes, girls (and people in general) can be downright racist, thats something your just going to have to deal with being of a certain ethnic decent. A few of my buddies have the same problem.
2) I have a lot of girls that are just very close friends, and coming directly from their mouths, alot of Indian men creep them out. Now this isn't because they are racist, its because a large group of Indian as well as Arab and other ethnic men approach girls in a very direct and threatening manner. I've seen countless men of ethnic decent just walk up behind girls and start dancing. And thinking from a woman perspective, I wouldn't enjoy some guys dick rubbing on my ass if I have never even seen and can't see his face. This of course is a stereotype, because people of all races do it. But it just so happens that a large population of ethnic men act this way. This again, is something that you really can't stop and are just going to have to deal with.
3) Having all this being said, you can still try approaching in clubs and bars, your just going to have to work around these things. Try a more subtle approach perhaps. Maybe with a group surrounding so you appear less "threatening" to them.
4) Try gaming women in other areas, maybe the stereotypes in bars and clubs are just too much for you to overcome at this level of your game. Go and game girls in other places, there are plenty of females to go around and not all of them want to be gamed in a bar. Once your shining with confidence and have 2 girls walking into a club with you (that you met in another place), you'll be able to do it, I assure you of that.
5) Like the others above me said, its a matter of confidence and inner game as well.
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