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Author:  FNB [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 7:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Why only the hot or confident ones?
Is it possible for girls that are ugly to average be intimidated by guys? This the same way that a guy that is 6-7 usually is intimidated by a girl that is a 9-10? It looks like there are so called "leagues" in this society. The ugly go for the uglies. The average go for the average and the really cute / hot / sexy girls date guys that are hot. I would say that I have MANY times easier to attract and keep a hot or confident girl interested than a ugly or average one. The less cute ones don't seem to act normal around me!? I just don't know why but this is something that I've noticed... This gives me problems using negs. One other thing that is irritating (could possibly be good?) is that I don't get shit tested that much. I read at Atractology that if you don't get shit tested it's something wrong...
Author:  R.G. [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 10:08 pm ]
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^That's obvious. The less hot the girl gets, generally, the less shit tests she will give, and the worse she takes negs because she has more LSE. You should not be negging ugly girls. Rather, compliments go a long way. Negging an ugly girl is just really really harsh haha.

It's true that girls who give shit tests are easier to sarge (from my experience anyway). I don't really know why you want to sarge ugly girls but each to his own I guess.

There are unspoken social leagues. If you approach an ugly girl and you are high value (this could be due to your hotness or popularity, wealth or something else), she will feel "out of your league" and thus act in a distant way towards you. She knows you haven't come over to talk to her for booty, she knows it's not to make friends (why her?), so she assumes you want to use her in some way, or something like that.

What you have to do is a pattern interrupt. Just do anything that will interrupt her train of thoughts, actions and behaviour.
Author:  Abdul-aAfc [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 11:19 pm ]
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Rafiel Gamable you don't have a clue what you are talking about.
Do you even know what a pattern interrupt is?
A pattern interrupt is an nlp technique.


Anyway. Ugly girls aren't used to negs because it's mostly guys whop are good at game who use negs. Si by talking to her you are using these social techniques that she ain't used to.

That is why she might feel slightly scared of you at the start
Author:  FNB [ Tue Dec 16, 2008 1:42 pm ]
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I have never said that I want to sarge ugly to not so hot average girls. Why do that when it's easier to get pretty much any hot sexy girl. My point is more to understand why I have so much harder times with the not so hot ones (1-7). They seem to be much more distant than HB8-SHB10. The hot sexy girls are usually not "affraid" and therefore more direct, not distant, more close and easier to get on a date and to get intimate with. I have had a SHB10 starting to be touchy-feely and direct her total attention towards me in less than a minute. They don't use to be "bitchy" or shit test me that much... Thanks for the help to verify that there really are so called "unspoken social leagues"... :)
Author:  Hot Alpha Female [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 2:03 am ]
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Its totally true that average girls can get "being" approached anxiety. haha.

I know plenty of girls that get have blanks and say stupid things when a really hot guy walks up to them.

In fact because they are so shy, then they probably won't even send off the vibe that would make you want to approach them in the first place.

HB's on the other hand are very used to being approached and talked to and depending on how frequent this is ... will depend on how open they are.

But usually they are much more socially apt, because they have much more experience with interacting with men and people in general.
Author:  flypapermeems [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 3:40 am ]
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i have to agree with hot alpha female. girls who aren't that good looking are generally not as used to that sort of spontaneous interaction, especially with guys.

however, it does depend on the girl. most i'd say have LSE. seems to be a growing epidemic.
Author:  Stygian [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 4:28 am ]
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Quote:
Rafiel Gamable you don't have a clue what you are talking about.
Do you even know what a pattern interrupt is?
A pattern interrupt is an nlp technique
The hell? Of course he knows that, that's why he suggested it. So as to stop the scared train of thought and get her into a better head space. Albeit, not a technique I would use myself but perhaps it works. Rafiel, if you have used it please let me know the success rate.
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