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Author:  Karma10 [ Fri Oct 17, 2008 6:18 am ]
Post subject:  Opening Sets with Excuse Me in Day Game

What do you guys feel about saying Excuse Me during the opener? I sometimes do it out of nervousness, is it something I should work on not doing?

Author:  officedog [ Fri Oct 17, 2008 8:05 am ]
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to me, it sounds like you are apologising already. It is not something to apologise for, you are about to enter her life and she should be thanking you. I assume that you have something to follow up after the excuse me part. If not, you need something;

"excuse me, i was wondering what you thought of.."

drop the 'excuse me', and just add hey or hello;

"hey, I was wondering what you thought of.."

As long as you are still talking to her in a calm, confident manner, the 'excuse me' is not required.

Author:  Jaybot [ Fri Oct 17, 2008 2:03 pm ]
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I have tried to cut it out entirely, it sounds like you are apologizing. It's something I used to do every time, along with sorry. It makes you seem like you lack confidence, assume they are interested in what you have to say.

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