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Author:  griff_199 [ Thu Oct 16, 2008 2:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Annother shit test :/ damn these keep happening to me!! HELP
Right i was out using some PUA methods and one way of peacocking i use is to where like pearls and jelly braclets.

So i was out and some hb 7 came up to me and went "oooo lets have 1 of them" and tried to grab a bracelet of my wrist so i said "calm down your abit grabby arn't you?? your going to have to work harder than that to get anything free of me" she replied with "im only talking to you to get a bracelet dont get your hopes up" i was stunned i didnt have a clue what to say! so of the top of my head i got "and i only stopped to talk to you to make the girl over ther jelous and now she clearly is ill be on my way" and walked off and opened a 3 set with a hb9 in.
I had NO idea how to respond to that i mean im only 17 and i try and go for the cocky confident sort of approach what was a better reply???
Author:  JSmooth [ Thu Oct 16, 2008 6:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Annother shit test :/ damn these keep happening to me!!
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Right i was out using some PUA methods and one way of peacocking i use is to where like pearls and jelly braclets.

So i was out and some hb 7 came up to me and went "oooo lets have 1 of them" and tried to grab a bracelet of my wrist so i said "calm down your abit grabby arn't you?? your going to have to work harder than that to get anything free of me" she replied with "im only talking to you to get a bracelet dont get your hopes up" i was stunned i didnt have a clue what to say! so of the top of my head i got "and i only stopped to talk to you to make the girl over ther jelous and now she clearly is ill be on my way" and walked off and opened a 3 set with a hb9 in.
I had NO idea how to respond to that i mean im only 17 and i try and go for the cocky confident sort of approach what was a better reply???
Let me give you something that works real quickly. The standard Mystery answers to a girl who comes up and opens you for something you are wearing.

Girl: "I like your necklace..."
Mystery: "No you don't...you're just attracted to me."

Girl: "I am just talking to you to get a bracelet..."
You: "No you aren't...you're just attracted to me." (Look her in the eye and smile during this. You need to convey this confidently.)

Call her on her shit test. She wouldn't come talk to you if she wasn't attracted to you. Anyways, now you have something in your mind to say to the girls. Practice saying this a few times to get it in your automated response and rock on!
Author:  griff_199 [ Thu Oct 30, 2008 8:04 pm ]
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Quote:
Girl: "I like your necklace..."
Mystery: "No you don't...you're just attracted to me."

Girl: "I am just talking to you to get a bracelet..."
You: "No you aren't...you're just attracted to me." (Look her in the eye and smile during this. You need to convey this confidently.)
What if her resonce to this is negative? like what if she comes out with "No really im not"
or
just some abuse back

So far using that line its done me wonders as as you said " She wouldn't come talk to you if she wasn't attracted to you."
but i allways like to be prepared so have you got any good one liners if she shit tests you again?
Author:  Entice [ Fri Oct 31, 2008 1:15 am ]
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tbh that "dont get your hopes up" is a harsh response and I'd probably be taken back by it lmao. I'd feel like a tool getting told that.. I think you responded well by saying you was only talking to her to get a girl behind her jealous. Then opening a set with a hb9 in is an absolute killer, i hope she saw her :D.

If a girl had said this to me.. i havnt been in this situation for a while.. im usually in it when i wear glowsticks out clubbing.. but i would of just gone straight after her sh#t test "then we're done here arent we?" (while laughing) and just walk off. If she really is interested she'd come back to you there and then or at somepoint in the night. she's only one girl at the end of the day.

- Entice
Author:  JSmooth [ Fri Oct 31, 2008 2:12 am ]
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Quote:
Quote:
Girl: "I like your necklace..."
Mystery: "No you don't...you're just attracted to me."

Girl: "I am just talking to you to get a bracelet..."
You: "No you aren't...you're just attracted to me." (Look her in the eye and smile during this. You need to convey this confidently.)
What if her resonce to this is negative? like what if she comes out with "No really im not"
or
just some abuse back

So far using that line its done me wonders as as you said " She wouldn't come talk to you if she wasn't attracted to you."
but i allways like to be prepared so have you got any good one liners if she shit tests you again?
You don't need an answer to absolutely anything she can throw at you. First of, we're not going to be sitting here all day and night going "What if..." it's counterproductive. Like I said she wouldn't be coming over to talk to you if she wasn't interested or attracted.

Just remember: "Yeah right...you're just attracted to me." If a girl shit tests me after this I might say, "Bring it on!" :) with a smile. Then maybe go to play fighting if needed or say something along the lines of "You and me in the parking lot right now, come on..."

These are things I would say and you can use them or branch off on your own stuff. I don't want to leave you unprepared but you can't plan for every eventuality. This is what "calibration" otherwise known as lots of time in field will do for you.

Something that is productive is when you go out in field and try it, then make up your responses as you go. I can tell you some things to try but really you need to do these things on your own so that you are congruent with who you are.
Author:  Swoop [ Fri Oct 31, 2008 5:17 am ]
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Smooth has got it dead on. You can't let shit Tests even enter your reality. its like no girl can shake you.

One thing I like to do after a shit test is give the hb that "look." The one that that says, "you must be out of your fucking mind right now." Like youre confused as to what shes doing; it doesn't even register that shes being a bitch to you because you arn't used to that response from your friends and other normal people.

TDurden says, just act like its completely out of your reality. You shoot the "look" then just go about with whatever, plow through, "So anyways...yatta yatta..." As long as your "frame" or your sense of reality, is stronger than hers, and you are congruent with yourself, she will adapt accordingly.

Honestly though, girls are silly and they play games, look at shit tests as a compliment, She is seeing if you can over come and stay in control. She is auditioning you. A shit test translated from her head= "I might like you if you can handle my bullshit... Can you handle my bullshit??"

Of course you can! The question is... do you want to handle HER bull shit?
Author:  momentrising [ Fri Oct 31, 2008 5:19 am ]
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When talking, I'm aiming to become more and more witty. The more experience you have with talking, and looking back at what you can improve to become "witty" the next time you have a similar situation, you have a better chance of finding something witty to say.

Being witty is having to always have the upperhand in the conversation. It leads the convo to more a interesting vibe. It's like C&F.

"Don't get your hopes up"
Re: "Really? You think so? I didn't really have my hopes up for you because I thought you were pretty... (suspense, suspense for 2 seconds
) hopeless. *Give her a knowing smile*

Now she's gonna be thinking she wants you and she's the one who shouldn
t get her hopes up. Trust me, I did this once or twice and it worked. She got that "omg you didn't just say that" look
Author:  griff_199 [ Fri Oct 31, 2008 12:49 pm ]
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Thanx a lot guys
and J Smooth thanks alot!!!
I dhouldnt sit here thinking of everything i just like to have a little knowledge incase i draw a blank....thanx a lot lads :)
x
Author:  sexypuabunny [ Sun Nov 02, 2008 6:14 pm ]
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"im only talking to you to get a bracelet dont get your hopes up"
thats not gonna get u in pants. Im afraid u'll have to try a bit harder than that. I could a (beer or whatever thanks).
(hope u get the idea bro)

the other one is not bad either

NO ur not. ur just attracted to me
Author:  Gander [ Thu Nov 06, 2008 1:00 am ]
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Don't cut yourself short though.. That's a pretty tight response right of the top of your head. You could try something along the lines of then don't get your hopes up for a bracelet but The I didn't have my hopes up because you're pretty...hopeless definitely seems bullet-proof
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