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| Author: | Mykelah [ Wed Oct 15, 2008 8:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | The Importance of DISQUALIFICATION |
Howdy all, Obviously qualification is a huge part of building attraction and comfort with a girl. However, I'm kinda at a loss as to whether there is importance of disqualifaication. I just feel that qualification is a bit hypocritical and feels like you are trying to impress her. For example, I often make statements such as 'awh, your much too cute for me'. Or another example is I ask them what they look for in a guy? And they might say he must be kind and tall. And I would say 'oh no, I'm a small mean-ass and playfully push them gently away and say 'what ya doin with me?' It makes them blush and builds kino. I just feel qualification plays rights in to there hands as you're kind of pulling them whereas instead I challenge and have fun with them using playful/teasing with lots of push. I just find it much more effective and enjoyable as they won't have any idea if you like them. Is this disqualification or am I confused? Any thoughts/help on this would be greatly appreciated. Take it easy, E |
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| Author: | A Minor [ Wed Oct 15, 2008 7:44 pm ] |
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E, Your post immediately struck with potential frame issues. However, it may simply be that this is an area I can, and potentially should, relax my frame. Telling a girl she is too cute for me, is something I'd stray away from. Maybe switch it to "Your too much of a good girl for me." with a playful smile. Similarly, I don't ask what types of guys girls are into unless its a logical extension to ongoing conversation. And yes, it provides a lot of opportunity for diqualifications, negs, and kino. But again, I must stress, I don't like to show that level of interest to ask such a question. In fact, once a girl asked me that question on a date. I did not reciprocate. She was my GF of 2 years. |
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| Author: | Mykelah [ Wed Oct 15, 2008 9:58 pm ] |
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[quote="A Minor"] But again, I must stress, I don't like to show that level of interest to ask such a question. |
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| Author: | Mykelah [ Wed Oct 15, 2008 9:59 pm ] |
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Quote: But again, I must stress, I don't like to show that level of interest to ask such a question.
Cheers for the reply, I agree alot with what you say. However, I really didn't state that playful/teasing is how I always am with a girl, so I guess it is never to be taken that serious and usual we just get a laugh out of it. I mean, I've never had a girl start listing qualities, i just ruffle her hair and build kino from there.Thanks again... |
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| Author: | xxxScudxxx [ Wed Oct 15, 2008 10:09 pm ] |
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I think if you disqualify yourself it may show confidence in a way, even more if you are playful while doing it. Before i got into the game i remember i got i girl by just disqualifying myself... i was interested in her but my friend was crazy about her, so i tried to disqualify myself. Now, although i think it may help, i don't use it or recommend it. |
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| Author: | Weasley [ Fri Oct 17, 2008 5:41 am ] |
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Disqualification is important. Girls may like how cute tigers are but they won't go near one showing it's teeth. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Sat Oct 18, 2008 9:48 pm ] |
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Reverse your line of thinking on the disqualification, and think of it as another way of making the girl qualifying her self to you. |
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| Author: | Mykelah [ Mon Oct 27, 2008 7:22 pm ] |
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Didn't really look in to this too much before posting. Disqualification is an important part of MM. Think of comments such as 'f I wasn't gay, you'd so be mine'. Or for a more simpler example that I'm sure some of you have experienced: when you have a girlfriend and you're on a night out but she's not there, think how many easy opportunites have presented themselves because the girls don't that you're trying to pick them up, simple really... |
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