I am relatively new to pick up. I made around 100 approaches between February and June (I did not count precisely) and around 150 just this July (I started to count and to keep statistics). My goal is to make at least 200 approaches per month (50 per week) from now on, improve my game and see what happens.

The biggest lesson that I have learnt so far is that your approach must seem as natural as possible.

The vibe must be this: you are living your life, you notice her and out of impulse you find the courage to approach her (she is an exception, you do not always do this). Be direct, but have social intelligence.

I would like to share my views on how to give this kind of vibe in various typical situations that you will come across during your sarges. You can give yours or add other situations to discuss.

I will try to order these situations in order of difficulty. From the easiest to the most difficult (in my opinion).

SITTING SOLO GIRL
I have tried 3 kinds of approaches in this situation. You can imagine the girl sitting on a bench, but you can adapt it to similar situations.

-Funny direct
I sit next to her (without asking her permission) and I say something along the lines of: "Ah, a completely random place to sit on" and I look at her with a smirk (they usually smile back). It's ok-ish, but I think I give the vibe "I hit like this on every sitting girl on a bench".

-Wrong bench strategy
I walk past her and I sit on another bench (assuming there is another free bench). I wait for 30 seconds and only then I pretend to notice her beauty. I stand up, I go to her and say something like: "I think I sat on the wrong bench before". I sit next to her saying: "You are very attractive".

-Simplicity
I walk past her. I look at her, I hesitate a little bit (to make my approach seem more impulsive), I walk back to her and I simply say: "Can I sit here?". They always say yes (of course, there is no reason to say no). Then I say: "You know, you are very attractive".

STANDING SOLO GIRL

I am still writing this thread. Be patient. It could take me more than 1 day. Thanks.

if you see a women and you believe she is too good looking for you what happens? should I take a chance or should I give way to doubt?? do men in this situation give up or take a chance?? please advise me sir