Would like some opinions on how I'm doing.
I know I'm only making babysteps and have a long way to go. BUT at least I'm taking action!
Underneath is a short report of my approaches today.
If you don't wanna read them the "conclusion and questions" are at the end. Tnx!
Went out to the city for daygame. This is the 4th time of daygame for me. Had to overcome myself again but it is getting easier. Got out of the metro and decided to start fast and just go. Instantly spotted 2 chicks and then went for the easiest solution logistic wise.
1. Metro girl 7. age 25. BF
Opener: hi, saw you on the tube, you also from “my hometown”?
We had an okay short conversation but she said she had a BF.
2. Exotic cutie from outside Antwerp. 7 . age 22. BF
Opener: Hi, you’ve got a great style.
I was vibing with her and had good fun. She excused herself for having a BF.
3. Redhead 7 from Limburg. BF. age 30.
Opener: You have really nice haircolor. We had an ok an fun conversation. She had to catch her train, asked for her number “my BF won’t like it”.
4. Portugese 7. 30.
She didn’t really speak English, so it wasn’t really a fluent convo. I think she was saying she worked in one of the bars where we were walking. I think she was an illegal stripper or something
Something was off with this chick. Asked for her number so I could “show her the city”. She was mumbling something about me coming to her bar. Left it there.
5. Girl from shop 7. 22. BF
Young girl that was working at a shop. Opened her while I was paying for a drink.
Opener: Wauw you look really nice. Blablabla she had a BF.
6. Black 7 shaking NO.
Tried to open her. She just gave me the bitch face while shaking her head. Haha funny shit.
7. Girl from my hometown. 6. pornface. BF
Kind of awkward opener. Asked her where she was from etc… Kept walking with her for a while, didnt really vibe. Asked for her number: “I have a BF”. Surprise
8. Young Chinese 6. Too young.
Nice short convo. When I asked her number she said I think you’re too old for me.
She said she was 19. I was like “jep you are right” and I was out.
conclusion
There wasn’t any girl I approached that was stunning in my opinion. Wasn’t feeling any real attraction.
Also most of them (except for 1) didn't stop but just kept walking.
For the openers I’m really trying to compliment on something that is personal and also something that I actually mean. It’s more an improvisation but seems to work for me.
I’m getting a lot more relaxed in the conversations so It’s easier to keep up conversation, laugh and make jokes. I also succeeded in subtle touching her arm,etc… I only made 28 approaches so far but it's already A LOT less scary and awkward. I think I might even like this stuff one day
It's funny as hell!
Yet, I didn't close any number. That was kind of frustrating.
Still too scared to open up on 10s and sets.
Working points:
- Approach way more
- Also approach the 10s
- DO sets
Questions:
- Should I try to make them stop? Or keep walking with them?
- I use quite direct openers, which kinda communicates I'm into her. I think being direct is easier to weed out the ones interested... or is this too aggressive?
- Should I try to stick in my "age class (30)" I'm under the impression that I mostly encounter younger girls...Might this be a reason i'm not closing a lot of chicks?
Approaches 27
Number closes 3
Dates 0
Lays 0