PUA Forum :: Struggling to understand the subjective nature of attraction

Ok bro i think you might need to look at this problem from a different perspective.
Average girls get hit on ALL THE TIME! Of course you won't have the success you are expecting, the girls you are chasing have literally a million options!
My advice is to forget about them and focus only on what you want, if you want a 9/10 dont settle just keep approaching 9s and 10s until you have success.

Author:	bravesfan22 [ Thu Dec 29, 2016 12:21 am ]
Post subject:	Struggling to understand the subjective nature of attraction
Logically, if i could attract a woman who by most people standards would be a 9/10. I would feel like i would have a high success rate with women who are less attractive, successful, worse social skills, etc. But i dont. I have a fairly high rejection rate with girls that I find just "attractive enough" or "cute" even when they have poor careers or w/e. it doesnt make sense to me the gorgeous girl with a great career would approach me and pursue me, yet the nannies or secretaries i meet on Tinder or at the local bar have always been meh. I realize attraction is subjective, but I woudl still think if i had enough going for me to attract someone amazing, i would be attracting alot higher percentage of women that have less going for them. The issue this causes me, is that i get anxiety in these relationships, as i have a harder time believing they are real due to the sheer amount of rejections from girls who i honestly didnt view as that great of catches/have much going for them.

Author:	150Strong [ Thu Dec 29, 2016 1:53 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Struggling to understand the subjective nature of attrac
Ok bro i think you might need to look at this problem from a different perspective. Average girls get hit on ALL THE TIME! Of course you won't have the success you are expecting, the girls you are chasing have literally a million options! My advice is to forget about them and focus only on what you want, if you want a 9/10 dont settle just keep approaching 9s and 10s until you have success.

Author:	bravesfan22 [ Thu Dec 29, 2016 2:14 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Struggling to understand the subjective nature of attrac
Quote: Ok bro i think you might need to look at this problem from a different perspective. Average girls get hit on ALL THE TIME! Of course you won't have the success you are expecting, the girls you are chasing have literally a million options! My advice is to forget about them and focus only on what you want, if you want a 9/10 dont settle just keep approaching 9s and 10s until you have success. honestly, i dont need a girl that hot. After a certain level of attraction to me, its all the same. Like I can tell the difference between a 9 and a 7, but i dont get anything out of it, so dont care if the girl is a 9 or 7 to me. I guess i feel i would have more in common, more compatable with a cute girl with a decent job. Then a girl with fake tits, a huge salary, and instagram page looks like she is a rock star traveling the world

Author:	younglady [ Wed Jan 04, 2017 1:49 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Struggling to understand the subjective nature of attrac
Humans all have different preferences. There's the mystery solved for you!

Author:	R.C [ Wed Jan 04, 2017 9:39 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Struggling to understand the subjective nature of attrac
Quote: Logically, There's your problem.

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