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Author:  Mr. Fritz [ Fri Nov 18, 2016 9:40 am ]
Post subject:  Small, inexpensive gift as an act of approaching
So, there's a girl in my workplace. I noticed her looking at me 2 times, but as soon as I looked at her she would look away. I didn't do anything about it. Meanwhile I went on holidays and intend to bring some of my work buddies an inexpensive gift(small box of chocolates, traditionally made in my country) wrapped in decorative paper. Would it be wise to give her one as well? If not, why?

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Author:  R.C [ Fri Nov 18, 2016 10:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Small, inexpensive gift as an act of approaching
There's a difference between "need", "wise" and "can".

You definitely don't need to.
You definitely can.
And whether or not it's wise is a matter of are you doing it as an excuse to approach or are you doing it because you were going to approach anyway so might as well?
Author:  Mr. Fritz [ Fri Nov 18, 2016 11:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Small, inexpensive gift as an act of approaching
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There's a difference between "need", "wise" and "can".

You definitely don't need to.
You definitely can.
And whether or not it's wise is a matter of are you doing it as an excuse to approach or are you doing it because you were going to approach anyway so might as well?
I'm doing it as an excuse, but at the same time I don't want it to look too obvious. I was going to observe her reaction to my gift, and later, if she gives an ioi like, start flirting and ultimately ask her out.

She's generally good looking and everyone is hitting on her and her sister, but everyone has been unsuccessful. Seriously, virtually every man stares at them. So I tried doing the opposite of what others do, I ignored them(though not completely), and soon I noticed her looking at me. Not sure if that's related.

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Author:  Black Phantom [ Sat Nov 19, 2016 6:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Small, inexpensive gift as an act of approaching
So you basically you want us to tell you how to get *THIS* one special girl?

Because there is nothing in the universe that will help you do that.
Author:  Mr. Fritz [ Sun Nov 20, 2016 10:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Small, inexpensive gift as an act of approaching
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So you basically you want us to tell you how to get *THIS* one special girl?

Because there is nothing in the universe that will help you do that.
Nope. Just asking if the gift is ok considering I didn't do anything when I had a chance. An oppinion from someone more experienced.
Author:  Black Phantom [ Sun Nov 20, 2016 10:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Small, inexpensive gift as an act of approaching
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So, there's a girl in my workplace.
Author:  Mr. Fritz [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 10:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Small, inexpensive gift as an act of approaching
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So, there's a girl in my workplace.
Just out of sheer curiosity, why don't you just answer the question, rather than going deep down into the problem?
Author:  Black Phantom [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 11:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Small, inexpensive gift as an act of approaching
Going deep into the problem IS answering the question.
Author:  Charity_ [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 6:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Small, inexpensive gift as an act of approaching
It would creep me out if a guy that doesn't even talk to me walks up and gives me a gift.
Author:  neo87 [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 6:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Small, inexpensive gift as an act of approaching
If you're going to give out chocolate to a bunch of people I don't think it's a big deal to include her. Nothing wrong with being a nice guy at work. Dont be afraid to just be a social guy in general. For e.g. a few months ago I won some candy at a work auction. I gave a few to close work mates and also gave a few to people at work I don't really talk to. Don't over complicate a simple act of being social or make it a big deal.
Author:  bluesunrise [ Tue Dec 06, 2016 10:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Small, inexpensive gift as an act of approaching
The only inexpensive gift that you can give to a girl that you don t know is something like an origamy flower that you d make out of a cigarette paper or something like that...
Something that you d make quickly without any cost just to offer good vibes without expecting something in return...
Don t give the paper flower and run away And OBSERVE the girl If she s interested to go further you ll notice it...again don t rush for the numclose stay in / insert some jokes build confort then instant date or numclose...
Author:  kidfromcro [ Tue Dec 06, 2016 10:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Small, inexpensive gift as an act of approaching
why don't you just approach and start talking and if she"s receptive then you could give her something as a gift,like paper plane or so,you"ll probably show more balls then any of those guys hitting on her,if she rejects you,so what,not everyone has a good taste,have fun with it
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