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Author:  Spirly [ Sun Jul 10, 2016 7:20 pm ]
Post subject:  looking to improve my dating lifestyle, require some help
:D Hiya,I am writing this post, simply because I have been battling for a while to get to know women, I dunno if this has something to do with myself, or if perhaps it's just because of awful luck.



I've been hanging out close to 2 or 3 times each week, generally to nightclubs and bars, It really has been really hard for me personally, mainly because I'm not the man that is known for how sociable or outgoing he's. I felt somewhat uneasy and distressed, and it is really hard to me (especially) to communicate in these kinds of enviroment with the ladies, even thought, I had undertaken it, I never acquired a great deal of succes, do you folks give me some suggestions?
Author:  prince_prince [ Sun Jul 10, 2016 7:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: looking to improve my dating lifestyle, require some hel
Whats up man? One thing you could do is the noobie drill.



Where basically you just go out and cold approach strangers

and try to drum up conversations with them. You could be surprised

where these types of things could lead.


I am pretty sure there is a forum post on here somewhere!
Author:  Spirly [ Mon Jul 11, 2016 8:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: looking to improve my dating lifestyle, require some hel
yeah I've been going out constantly, but theres a lot to work on before seeing any changes. Yet still ithas been a very enrichment expeience
Author:  Dragula [ Mon Jul 11, 2016 9:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: looking to improve my dating lifestyle, require some hel
Find some guys who want to the same thing as you and push each other
Author:  LA.OC.Skater [ Mon Jul 11, 2016 10:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: looking to improve my dating lifestyle, require some hel
Stop going to bars and nightclubs. Try a different venue. Malls, farmers market, swap meets. Also, figure out who you are. What are you about, what do you like, what are your strengths, etc. Have you done the exercise where you just go up to women and say hello? That is a good one. Or, when you see a woman YOU particularly like, have you gone up to her and just flat out told her you think she is attractive? This is stuff you have to do.
Author:  Black Phantom [ Mon Jul 11, 2016 12:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: looking to improve my dating lifestyle, require some hel
If you feel uneasy and distressed, I would suggest you start with your general confidence.

How you feel about yourself is the #1 key thing to success in this area. And if you feel uneasy, weird, anxious
and generally not comfortable in your own skin, it's going to be VERY hard for you to have any success.

If I had to give you an advice, I would say start getting as much out of your comfort zone as possible. Do
things that feel LEAST like you for a while, just to get out of your head.

Stop random women in the street and ask them for time.

Take a cold shower every morning to get out of your comfort zone.

Wake up at 4am in the morning and take a run.

Do things that feel weird and uncomfortable.

Do as many things as possible to get out of your comfort zone.

Your whole thing is you are trapped in your body, in your anxiety prison. To counter that, you need to get
out of it as much as possible.

I would however warmly invite you to participate in my test group, where I'm testing a new anxiety removal
technique, which removes your approach anxiety and enables you to comfortably approach women. I think
that would help you ease the anxiety, and help you get comfortable and relax. Details in my signature.

Hope this helps,
Author:  R.C [ Mon Jul 11, 2016 12:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: looking to improve my dating lifestyle, require some hel
I'm not sure why you choose to focus on the night scene but ok.

If you can't hold proper conversation during the day when the environment is friendly and calm enough for you to express yourself at will, I don't know why you'd think you'll have better success in dynamic, loud and fast paced nighttime environments.
Author:  Dragula [ Tue Jul 12, 2016 5:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: looking to improve my dating lifestyle, require some hel
Quote:
I'm not sure why you choose to focus on the night scene but ok.

If you can't hold proper conversation during the day when the environment is friendly and calm enough for you to express yourself at will, I don't know why you'd think you'll have better success in dynamic, loud and fast paced nighttime environments.

Because PUA's are super confident when drunk
Author:  Sh0wtyme99 [ Wed Jul 13, 2016 1:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: looking to improve my dating lifestyle, require some hel
It all starts with confidence my brother! With anything that requires sales (You're selling yourself as an item she'd like to invest in), you have to be confident. If a referee blows a whistle and seems unsure, you are going to question his or her call. If you go to a store and they say they don't have anymore size large in that shirt, but they don't sound confident, you're going to want them to check in the back to make sure. If you know what you're talking about, then you can say it with confidence. You have you practice. You have to have filler conversation ready. I practiced on my coworkers all day long. When I was in sales I practiced what I could on customers, young and old. It got to the point where when it's action time, and say I'm in Miami, or something. It just flows, and I can set up the cold read, or the negative, or the tease. The DHV. Hopefully this helps. Let me know if there is any more I can help with.
Author:  gameshine [ Sun Jul 17, 2016 7:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: looking to improve my dating lifestyle, require some hel
Approach- Opinion Opener- Hey quick question I have to go meet my friend, but I need your opinion real fast, something going on around your area, or something that sounds genuine and that can get a explanation going

Opinion openers are used to transition right into normal conversation. so after asking the question getting a answer transfer into normal convo.

Mid game- showing your personality strengths- Attraction- where you from? Im interested in peoples heritage me and my friend im about to meet are planning a vacation to (exotic place) place in a couple weeks he's been forcing me on this learning the world phase of travel, what are some cool places you traveled to. get to know each other start talking about yourself who you are build some comfort. build attraction have some laughs play some kino(touching) games

end game- the close- logistics- Figure her time frame is she busy is she doing anything, ask her to go for a quick coffee and story of your escapades or say you got pictures you wanna show her something grab her hand and lead her hold hands go get coffee. Instant date. if she is busy get her contact information make sure you plan a day next day or day after no later than 3 days later, hit her up and meet up.

this is a basic plan you can start using message me for any more help you need good luck.
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