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| Author: | farley [ Thu Jun 16, 2016 2:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | What would you have done? |
Waiting at a bus stop today, a cute girl walks up to the stop with headphones in. The first thing I noticed about her is she looked a lot like 'Alexa Vega', aka very attractive. I check my phone briefly then I walk up to her and say "hey", she takes out her earphones, I say " Is your name Alexa?" she says no and looks confused. I say" haha my bad, but you look exactly like Alexa Vega, like the actress from spy kids" she says 'ha ya, ive heard that a few times before' , I say " I literally had to google her after I saw her cause I thought you were her' she says "ha", and put her headphones back in. That was the end of the conversation, I felt like she was interested in talking to me anymore. Im interested to see how you guys would approached the situation and what you would have done to help transition the conversation! |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Thu Jun 16, 2016 2:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you have done? |
An introduction |
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| Author: | RockstarPUA [ Thu Jun 16, 2016 10:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you have done? |
As soon as she said she'd heard it a few times, I would have changed the subject. And the whole googling thing, was a bit weird. Not sure why, but it felt kinda strange. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 16, 2016 3:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you have done? |
Quote: I felt like she wasn't interested in talking to me anymore. You stopped being interesting. |
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| Author: | farley [ Thu Jun 16, 2016 11:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you have done? |
What exactly would any of you have said or done to continue the interaction? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Fri Jun 17, 2016 12:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you have done? |
An introduction |
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| Author: | farley [ Fri Jun 17, 2016 1:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you have done? |
Introducing myself hardly seems appropriate or likely to continue the interaction. You say Hi my name is.... , they introduce themself... now what? |
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| Author: | galist [ Fri Jun 17, 2016 3:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you have done? |
That was the end of the conversation, I felt like she was interested in talking to me anymore. maybe she felt like she out valued you |
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| Author: | calauck [ Fri Jun 17, 2016 2:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you have done? |
Honestly, I think she was a lost cause after that cheesy pick-up line. I would've just started, as has been suggested, by just introducing myself (preferably with a sincere-looking smile). Sorry but I really wouldn't have known what to do either after she put back her earphones. I would've really doubted her interest in me at that point. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Fri Jun 17, 2016 2:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you have done? |
Quote: Introducing myself hardly seems appropriate or likely to continue the interaction. You say Hi my name is.... , they introduce themself... now what? You're asking how to continue the conversation. If you want to continue after she puts her earphones back in...tap your ear while looking at her to show that you have more to say and then when she removes them you have to say something to show that you are interested in her.
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| Author: | galist [ Fri Jun 17, 2016 3:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you have done? |
i.ve wondered about this bfore. by talking to her/ to them isn't that already a sign of interest? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Fri Jun 17, 2016 3:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you have done? |
Quote: i.ve wondered about this bfore. by talking to her/ to them isn't that already a sign of interest?
Yes, but it's not enough. Orbiters talk and get nowhere. Guys that are attractive to women make them feel something.
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jun 17, 2016 4:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you have done? |
Why do some guys turn having a conversation with a girl into something as bad as a porcupine giving birth to another porcupine? Just be normal. |
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| Author: | galist [ Fri Jun 17, 2016 5:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you have done? |
Quote: Quote: i.ve wondered about this bfore. by talking to her/ to them isn't that already a sign of interest?
Yes, but it's not enough. Orbiters talk and get nowhere. Guys that are attractive to women make them feel something. |
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| Author: | galist [ Sat Jun 18, 2016 2:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you have done? |
i was thinking about this and im starting to wonder if my idea about online is applicable here: nobody has perfect game, one might have good but if physically the person isnt attracted to you its no good. looks does affect game |
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