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| Author: | thehitpack [ Thu May 26, 2016 9:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | What would you do different? |
I made 3 casual approaches Im just starting out. First was in a shop I made a compliment about a sales assistant hair and casually flirted with her nothing to exciting. Second was on a bench asked a girl if she needed a light and made small talk about work. The third was the best a 7 or 8 at a bus stop I asked her for a light and complimented her cool hair and flirted with her asking what she was doing that day. I got a good reaction from her. How would you handle these situations different to get better results. Like I said I'm just starting out. |
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| Author: | kidfromcro [ Thu May 26, 2016 9:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do different? |
i usually don"t give compliments right away,when i do it"s very rarely on her looks,i find some personality trait and i compliment that,just don"t count on her reactions,it"s your actions what"s cool and arousing,be unreactive and do it for you,feel good cos you did it,but good job and keep taking action 
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| Author: | thehitpack [ Thu May 26, 2016 11:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do different? |
im wanting to know how to get more effective numbers. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Thu May 26, 2016 2:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do different? |
The advice from the previous poster was pretty spot on. You are only going to get effective numbers from women that you can spark an emotional response from. Showing that you are attracted to her and carrying yourself like an attractive man is the absolutely best way to go to ensure attraction. For an effective number, there are a few things that you can do. 1. Try to make your initial meeting into a quick date and then get her number. 2. Keep flirting with her after you get her number. 3. Always make sure she knows that you want her number because you want to see her again. The third is the most important. It gives her an out and keeps you from wasting your time in a girl who is only acting interested to be polite. If she's only a little interested, it's more likely that she'll actually meet again because she agreed to give you the number for a specific purpose. It doesn't guarantee that she won't flake, but there's more of a chance that she won't. |
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| Author: | thehitpack [ Thu May 26, 2016 5:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do different? |
Had another good one today 3 more. First wasn't all that great just very quick chat on bus. Second was awesome girl seemed really keen i was seconds away from asking for her number but some other getting on the bus knew her and blocked me i was literally seconds away from asking. Third was a street approach just asking for time and making quick small talk. During the day i caught a chicks eye walking up the street but i hesitated and speaking to her would have been awkward. I suppose thats the next step. This shit is unreal. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu May 26, 2016 5:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do different? |
Quote:
This shit is unreal.
Like a grade school kid walking out into the sun on the last day of classes for the start of summer.
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| Author: | J.Daniels [ Fri May 27, 2016 1:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do different? |
You're fucking killing it. Good job. Nice to see a guy taking action for once. 99% of the guys on this forum are pretty much asking "how can I get bigger muscles without actually having to go to the gym? Like which YouTube coach will I gain the most muscle from if I watch their videos every day?" but you're actually going out and doing shit. As for compliments, I like them. Feminine energy grows through praise. As long as it's a genuine compliment and not flattery then it's fine. I haven't really been approaching for a while, but when I do, I also like to do a little teasing and give them a nickname, so that I can use that nickname when I call/text them and they know who I am without me being all "Hi! It's Jay! Please remember me, I had the blue shirt on, black jeans, remember? Please like me enough to remember me!" or I do something that I learned on this forum somewhere, which was to save my number in her phone, but save it as something like "Sexy Walmart guy" or whatever your thing is.. ha. |
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| Author: | thehitpack [ Wed Jun 01, 2016 1:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do different? |
Did some more daygame. Sarged in town approaching in street very difficult thing to accomplish and i highly doubt it to work. However parks where people are sunbathing are brilliant had a long conversation with a law student about various and asked her out sadly she had a boyfriend. Also had another today with a chick from uni, long conversation but the same she had a a boyfriend. Pretty awesome though there was a 2 set sitting nearby but engaging them in convo would have been awkward. good fun though |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Jun 01, 2016 3:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do different? |
Ahh the boyfriend card. Some women say they have a boyfriend to simply end the interaction. Some say it as if were a can of mace. Some say it because they do have a boyfriend. Doesn't always mean game over. |
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| Author: | adam dalmor [ Wed Jun 01, 2016 4:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do different? |
I offen get a boyfriend card. I opned 5 girls today but no one stoped. Do you stop girls dominantly or wait if you see her interest and then stop? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Jun 01, 2016 4:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do different? |
Quote: I offen get a boyfriend card.
How did you open them? Did they take on a defensive alignment position? Did they draw their bag in close to their body, and increase pace? Start blowing a whistle?
I opned 5 girls today but no one stoped. Do you stop girls dominantly or wait if you see her interest and then stop? |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Jun 01, 2016 6:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do different? |
You didn't provide any information to go off of. What I do see is that you attributed physical value to one girl here. The bus stop girl and it appears you got the best reaction from her. And thats how it is, the more you're actually into the woman you're approaching, the more genuine you'll come across. Good conversations come from having genuine curiosity about the stranger you're looking to talk to you. If you don't know why you're talking to someone, you'll have a tough time maintaining conversation. And they can feel this as well. 3 approaches ain't nothing though. Do at least 50 before you ask for tips. |
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| Author: | adam dalmor [ Thu Jun 02, 2016 3:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do different? |
Quote: Quote: I offen get a boyfriend card.
How did you open them? Did they take on a defensive alignment position? Did they draw their bag in close to their body, and increase pace? Start blowing a whistle?I opned 5 girls today but no one stoped. Do you stop girls dominantly or wait if you see her interest and then stop? Then I try to star conversation. Even if they speak with me they loks like try to escape or they say boyfirend or I have to go. I opend last 10 with it and almosti same reaction. How to keep her interest as long as possible? And other experiance with realy hot girls. I can note open them. I just stay and think, how to open them. And no idea comes. Do you know that feeling ? |
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| Author: | kidfromcro [ Fri Jun 03, 2016 8:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do different? |
ofc you get stuck in your head when you stand and look at them,don't wait,as soon as you see her go,my approach is very simple and straight,hi,what"s your name,or less often hi,you are cute,i wanted to meet you,reason you get stuck is cos you are placing higher value on her,just remember as a girl she also farts,takes a shit and so on,if you have to think then think what quality would make her even more attractive,like longer hair,bigger or smaller boobs,don't think in advance,be in the moment,and also don't go there with hidden agenda,tell her why you are there,she is very cute,good looking whatever and you would like to meet her |
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| Author: | DrewDating [ Sun Jun 05, 2016 5:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do different? |
sounds like youre doing great - build a common interest (aim for setting it up at a bar) and invite her out to that place and grab her number |
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