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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Wed Mar 09, 2016 10:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to warm approach ? |
Ok , so in game there are two main methods of pickup . The 1st one involves opening showing interest and moving on if the thoughts aren't mutual . The other involves being ambigious about interest and alternating interest with disinterest . In my case going up to her and " picking her up " has a slim chance of working so a cold approach is out of the question but really we have no reason to speak with each other on campus . If I walk up to her I'd be showing interest and would disqualify myself .The thing is I know her friends and I am trying to figure out how to get to her via her friends . This isn't group theory since she's never with them (exept the first time I saw her , I didn't initiate I just said hi to the her friends that I knew ) . So in case I wasn't clear my question is How can I pick her up without really picking her up ? How can I get closer to her friends and is it my only option to initiating without indicating I am interested ? This girl is a solid 8 , she gets initiated a lot , she's getting bored by it I really need some unconvential way of geting to her . ( without relying on coincidence or else I'll keep waiting ) |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Mar 10, 2016 3:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to warm approach ? |
Quote: Ok , so in game there are two main methods of pickup . The 1st one involves opening showing interest and moving on if the thoughts aren't mutual . The other involves being ambigious about interest and alternating interest with disinterest . In my case going up to her and " picking her up " has a slim chance of working so a cold approach is out of the question but really we have no reason to speak with each other on campus . If I walk up to her I'd be showing interest and would disqualify myself .The thing is I know her friends and I am trying to figure out how to get to her via her friends . This isn't group theory since she's never with them (exept the first time I saw her , I didn't initiate I just said hi to the her friends that I knew ) . So in case I wasn't clear my question is How can I pick her up without really picking her up ? How can I get closer to her friends and is it my only option to initiating without indicating I am interested ? This girl is a solid 8 , she gets initiated a lot , she's getting bored by it I really need some unconventional way of geting to her . ( without relying on coincidence or else I'll keep waiting )
You're thinking too small.WTF makes you think letting a girl know your interested in her disqualify's you? Who told you that? At least you didn't call her a 10, would she be a 10 if she had bigger tits? Longer/Shorter hair? Try this unconventional approach. Grow a sack and talk to her. I'm guessing you just have no clue what to say? Try catching her in the library, then find out what interests she has. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Thu Mar 10, 2016 6:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to warm approach ? |
lol , in my first post councidence would be actually seeing her in the library or being next to her in the cafeteria . I think it disqualifies me because she's used to it , to her I'd be just like all the others . No I have no idea what to tell her because it depends on where I see her . Last time she was alone with a guy in the smoking area. I don't know the guy and don't even smoke . I 've done soo many times before that I have an idea how this will pan out . She 'll be smiling and nice to me and progressively she'll become more and more uninterested and bored . |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Mar 10, 2016 7:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to warm approach ? |
Quote: I think it disqualifies me because she's used to it , to her I'd be just like all the others . No I have no idea what to tell her because it depends on where I see her . Last time she was alone with a guy in the smoking area. I don't know the guy and don't even smoke . I 've done soo many times before that I have an idea how this will pan out . She 'll be smiling and nice to me and progressively she'll become more and more uninterested and bored .
So you've tried? Tell me What you 'think' you'd say. Is this girl your only option? Do you see her as a 'Disney Princess'? |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Thu Mar 10, 2016 7:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to warm approach ? |
i'd just go for a handshake , initiate eye contactand either point out I know her friends and start the conversation from there or either tell her I saw her once while I was driving and the guy next to them thought i wanted to park or I'd just go simple and try to guess her major or her name ( i know those already ) . Currently yes . I've approached most girls I have found attractive and things haven't worked out , right now she is the only option . She 's really small and she has big green eyes , she does look like a disney princess , my friends make fun of me and tell me she looks like a 7 year old .How did you guess ? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Mar 10, 2016 8:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to warm approach ? |
Quote: Currently yes . I've approached most girls I have found attractive and things haven't worked out , right now she is the only option .
I bet your wrong. I bet there is some timid little cutie around campus just dying to know if you'll ever speak to her. I can even tell you how to find her. Quote:
How did you guess ?
Because your not the 1st Bro to fall for the prettiest girl in the whole wide world. You know? There is a 90% chance she hides in the bathroom to pick her nose, and eat the result of that deep dig. There is a 100% chance when she takes a shit, it smells like shit! Do you have a kid sister, or a cousin that used to tag along and be a general pain in the ass? But you tolerated it because you had to? |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Thu Mar 10, 2016 9:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to warm approach ? |
You're trying to belittle her because ? And why do I have to have other options in mind ? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 6:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to warm approach ? |
Quote: You're trying to belittle her because ?
I'm not Bro. All girls do shit like that. Do you understand about putting girls on a pedestal? Women are human. Women Have a Sexual Side. Women have an emotional side. Women have a dirty gross side. Quote: And why do I have to have other options in mind ?
You don't. However this one may not work out.
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 10:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to warm approach ? |
How can I make it work ? I am getting bored of the same results again and again . |
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| Author: | kingsmen1212 [ Sun Mar 13, 2016 2:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to warm approach ? |
Yea i cant lie im a pretty attractive guy . And i have good body languange from public speaking. And even i know generally when you approach a woman cold or too direct. Attractiveness doesnt mean shit. Even if you come on with the best canned pickup. I've seen situations where the moment I show interest too fast especially with ages 23 and below. They bounce. I'm not even sure excactly when to turn on the I like you vibe after the approach. If you know excaty let me know too. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Sun Mar 13, 2016 2:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to warm approach ? |
" wait how do you know him ? " " no , I just met him ,I don't know him " and that 's how ladies and gentleman I instantly lost her interest ..this happened a couple hours ago and it's an example of what I mean . |
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| Author: | kingsmen1212 [ Sun Mar 13, 2016 2:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to warm approach ? |
Sometimes i try to act like Im leaving and if she sticks around. I bring up another topic like Im just remembering something and turn back around. Generally ill do this until i reach a hook point topic. If i cant get her to contribute I just say fuck it and leave. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Mon Mar 14, 2016 8:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to warm approach ? |
So she usually either sits with one guy (every time it's another guy ) or she sits with her group of girls (around 4 other girls) . I know the guy who was sitting with her today's taste in woman , I am sure he's attracted to her . Any good amoging techniques or isolation techniques ? I know group theory would work in every scenario but it's kind of hard to pull off in these scenarios . |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Mar 14, 2016 8:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to warm approach ? |
Quote: So she usually either sits with one guy (every time it's another guy )
Why don't YOU be that guy? You can tell her about guitar lessons?
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Mon Mar 14, 2016 9:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to warm approach ? |
How I should take one ? or how she should take one ? |
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