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| Author: | Dre [ Mon Oct 05, 2015 7:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Aproaching when your a lesbian in a straight place |
As i said b4, im a lesbian, and i wanted to bring this one up. In my case, the game works the same in a gay environment because i know the girls there are like me. or at least 95% of them are. What about if im in your every day places? Not even bars and what not, im talking about during the day, regular places. Lately for me it has been the bus, and cafes. So lests imagine im on a bus and i see a girl i want to aproach. I need help coming up with some openers specially for these two situations i mentioned. I could use the fact that im a girl to my benefit mabe, and just try to get the girl's fb or number or whatever. Still need an opener im stuck on this one guys help me out plz. Most of the time there are plenty of spots on the bus so i cant even just go sit next to one without it being really weird and creepy xD Same goes for cafe.. need some help on openers for that too. |
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| Author: | DW-Heart-Charmer [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 3:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aproaching when your a lesbian in a straight place |
Nobody is really taking this one on so I thought I'd give some value here. I've never been a girl picking up a girl, but I can speak to having truthful and congruent communication be effective. I have seen wonders when I stop and just be wherever I am with the girl, not sure what I say first, but then conversation can lead to wherever it will go. I don't think it's that big of a deal that the girl may or may not be lez, but rather that you connect and lead her to a new experience if possible. I have a friend that bounces at one of my nightclubs. She gets wild and grinds on all kinds of girls. She says she gets so much action and I got to believe that for the most part she is true to herself and makes the effort to connect with all these girls. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 5:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aproaching when your a lesbian in a straight place |
You could certainly calibrate to the situation you find yourself in and ad-lib it rather than having to have pre-planned opening intros. Most of this stuff is nonverbal, so by showing your intentions nonverbally the girl will pick up on your vibe and either be down with it or not; you can read their feelings just by analyzing their reactions and body language. Sure, they may just "be acting nice," but as guys we also don't know for sure if the girl is just "acting nice" without the intention to be down for a meetup etc until we propose those things, it would be the same for you. But I wouldn't approach with too much of a friends vibe. |
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| Author: | Dre [ Wed Oct 07, 2015 12:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aproaching when your a lesbian in a straight place |
Night clubs and bars are easy for me. I just go for it and weather the girl is lez or not. Its just during the day, like i said, i dunno why i just block and never know what to do or say |
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