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Author:  Portugal.Thy.Man [ Sat Oct 03, 2015 10:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Cute Ukrainian stalker! Help?

What up guys!

Man I haven't been here in quite a while... But I sure did miss this!

So, I'm gonna ask a question that probably doesn't get asked here too often: what do you do when the girl
you're looking to get actually showed interest in you first?

Ok, ok, that was confusing, let me break it down... there's this little cute Ukrainian exchange student that goes to most of my classes. Of course, I had to notice her, with long blonde hair, shiny nose piercing, those long legs... yeah, you get the picture :wink: But that was it, I noticed her but never actually had real interest in strike up a chat.

But then I started noticing she, "followed" me everywhere: she would sit in the closest seat to me, sometimes looking at me to check if I'm checking her... even in the cafeteria she ordered her friends to sit "in that table" which happened to be right behind mine. Last time I saw her, I was putting down the tray, and I gave her "the gaze", and lo and behold, her eyes were lit up like the 4th of July 8)

So now I actually want to talk to her, but here's the thing(s):

1 - I literally never tried to start a conversation with a girl who was into me (it usually happens the other way around)
2 - One of my mates tried to talk to her, but he said he didn't like her because she was "cold"; now, I don't know what he meant by that, but I'm assuming since she's Ukrainian she must have a bit of a blizzard in her heart. Maybe melting that crap will present a problem?

And that's the gist of it. I was thinking of letting life run its course, we'll probably end up doing some assignment together and that would take off a lot of pressure, but I wanted to hear from brother first.

Cheers!

Author:  Black Phantom [ Sat Oct 03, 2015 11:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Cute Ukrainian stalker! Help?

There is not much to think about here dude. When she looks at you next time, walk up to her
and introduce yourself.

Author:  Portugal.Thy.Man [ Mon Oct 05, 2015 3:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Cute Ukrainian stalker! Help?

Major turn of events guys!

I did speak with her today. She was not cold at all, always very receptive, shits and giggles and all that... very touchy also, nice!

Aaaaaand then she drops the bomb: she's bi.

Now, I'm totally ok with that. But I cannot say I know how to deal with it... she did seem into me all the time.

Could you guys give any sort of advice on how to deal with it? (and YES, if she suggested a menage a trois, I would definitely be game.)

Cheers!

Author:  Dumbtoad [ Mon Oct 05, 2015 8:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Cute Ukrainian stalker! Help?

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Major turn of events guys!

I did speak with her today. She was not cold at all, always very receptive, shits and giggles and all that... very touchy also, nice!

Aaaaaand then she drops the bomb: she's bi.

Now, I'm totally ok with that. But I cannot say I know how to deal with it... she did seem into me all the time.

Could you guys give any sort of advice on how to deal with it? (and YES, I she suggested a menage a trois, I would definitely be game.)

Cheers!
well, since you already talk to her, and if she told you that, it means there's comfort, now you have to apply direct game, ask her out.

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