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Author:  turkishguyatuw [ Fri Sep 04, 2015 4:26 am ]
Post subject:  Meeting girls at university for an international student

I`m an international graduate student (I`m white turkish) at the University of Wyoming. I live alone and don`t know anyone here. And already about 2 weeks passed (though I was busy with other things) I was not able to meet some girls. I mean I met 2-3 girls, but that was just a small conversation regarding some other things. There are many hot girls here, but I think that they feel that I`m not american, so they`re not interested in me.
This town is really small and there are not so many entertainment places.
And I don`t have single female neighbors, though I guess I have one, but I never had a chance to meet her.
I feel like I`m isolated from girls here. I think if I lived in the dorms I would have more chance to have a sex.
So, dear american buddies, help me, how can I meet girls, date them, have a sex with them?

Author:  oceanx [ Fri Sep 04, 2015 6:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting girls at university for an international student

Join clubs on campus, join a frat or whatever, become involved.

I don't say these things for the purpose of "do these activities so you can meet girls at them" (although yes that can happen), I say this because you are not presently out and about and in the social mindstate. These things will help you to get in to a positive, social attitude when you are going about your day.

From there, a relaxed, fun persona can be developed that attracts people to you.

Your sense that women aren't interested in you becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Work on this. BELIEVE that you have immense value. Because you do.

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Sep 04, 2015 4:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting girls at university for an international student

Them feeling like you're not american and so they aren't interesting in you is nothing more than a fabrication of your own mind and non self confidence. If anything I would think the fact that you are non american would make you completely stand out from the majority of the other guys on campus. I could see that being more than a turn on than anything. You'll be "different" and they may even wonder what its like.

Approach women just like you would any where else. They care more about what you think of them than they do about what they think of you. Just remember that.

Author:  ChocolatePUA [ Sun Sep 06, 2015 1:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting girls at university for an international student

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I`m an international graduate student (I`m white turkish) at the University of Wyoming. I live alone and don`t know anyone here. And already about 2 weeks passed (though I was busy with other things) I was not able to meet some girls. I mean I met 2-3 girls, but that was just a small conversation regarding some other things. There are many hot girls here, but I think that they feel that I`m not american, so they`re not interested in me.
This town is really small and there are not so many entertainment places.
And I don`t have single female neighbors, though I guess I have one, but I never had a chance to meet her.
I feel like I`m isolated from girls here. I think if I lived in the dorms I would have more chance to have a sex.
So, dear american buddies, help me, how can I meet girls, date them, have a sex with them?
Speaking as a former international student, you've got things backwards. You're exotic - different. Be proud of that fact instead of trying to hide it.

Secondly, women aren't going to fall in your lap. You have to make the effort, go out, join social clubs, enter groups, and make friends with those in your class. If you don't make the effort, and get friendly with everyone, then it will be a very boring next couple of years.

Thirdly, create your own events. Contact your classmates and hold a get together at your place. A pizza party or a movie night. Meet up with other people from Turkey and neighbouring countries who you have a closer shared culture with. Be the one that starts the party and you'll build social value.

Author:  Tofu-86 [ Sun Sep 06, 2015 10:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting girls at university for an international student

I am in the same boat dude! Just started college in LA, living off campus due to many reasons and really having a hard time finding a group. On one hand I want to maintain some of my unique qualities and be able to have a chill time, on the other hand it's going pretty slow for me socially.

Author:  elliotrey [ Sun Sep 06, 2015 10:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting girls at university for an international student

Hey superstar,

OK so first of all - realise women are actually however secretly MORE ATTRACTED naturally to guy's from other countries & race's. Use your own unique FLAVOUR to your advantage.

Secondly loose the NEED to have the results fulfilled. It will come through your body language and she'll start to pick up on that.

Next just get curios and start talking to all the girls. Literally ALL OF THEM. When your shopping, at the buss stop - yeah join clubs and just get as social as you can - dude your probably not the only international student there. So start exploring! Having adventures and don't focus on the result of sleeping with them - focus on the fun times you can create as the interaction with them - that's the muscle you want to be building: it's basic KING GAME. Bring yourself as the king and get everyone having the best time around you - naturally you will magnetise the hottest girls who will want to lay with you.

Focus on building a strong circle. You will do it I can sense your kingly vibes from here! YES!

Peace,

Author:  Portugal.Thy.Man [ Sat Oct 03, 2015 11:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting girls at university for an international student

Man, are you kidding me?

I don't know what it's like in Wyoming, but in Europe if you're a foreign student, it's like you got "interesting" tatooed all over your face!

This is indeed a classic case of not believing in yourself. You know what helps me those times? Seeing a movie. Not even kidding bro. Like, if you see a college related movie like American Pie or Harold and Kumar, where the vibe is always positive, I assure you you'll feel like a brand new man after watching it. It's all about positive influences, I tells ya.

Chocolate made very good points, especially about meeting up with people who you share some cultural aspect with.

Other than that, I can only recommend you read this awesome book about college game, "Conquer Your Campus", by Mark Redman. It's basically college game 101.

Cheers mate!

Author:  Style981 [ Sun Oct 04, 2015 10:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting girls at university for an international student

Quote:
Hey superstar,

You will do it I can sense your kingly vibes from here! YES!
That's a little too much Motivation and Positivity by this forums' standards :D

Author:  R.C [ Sun Oct 04, 2015 11:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting girls at university for an international student

You being foreign makes you stand out. If anything, it's an advantage.

Use it.

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