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Author:  Rapture7 [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 6:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Wierd day game dilemna advice needed
Ok people I've changed my nick due to popular request lol.

Ok I decided to go and try some day game by myself and it all started well because I went by the local gym and impressed the ladies at the helpdesk and the fitness intructor. Anyway on my way out I heard them wispering "oh he's funny".

Ok so I was confident when i started. Then when I got into town I needed the toilet so I popped into macdonalds (which im not too keen on) untill the cashier girl asked me what i wanted, she was like a 6/7 and I thought why not try her....anyway I made some chat while i was ordering but didnt show any interest yet.

I ate my burger and chips. Then I thought I'll go back to the counter and see if I could number close. She was probably on a break so I asked her friend if I could speak to her. She promptly looked worried and said the girl had already left. I replied with, " really are you sure?"
The friend looked annoyed went to the staff room and I think she told the girl, who was wondering what I wanted.
Anyway um I think the friend replied with "he probably wants to ask you out" and she said something like, "tell him Ive already left".

So the friend comes back and reports she's already left. I of course reply cheerfully, it's ok and left. What do you guys think I did wrong in this scenario? bear in mind it took guts seen as there was lots of people at the counter :).

Ok question 2 how do you approach people you see at a distance who are walking away? I can't even open because I can't catch upto them. If I run at them it would just be weird. If I try to walk really fast and trail them and it takes londer then 2+streets I'm gonna appear like a stalker.
Also I know I need to catch up to them quick because they will either pop into a clothing store or a coffee shop both of which I find very hard to open in. I didn't manage to even open anyone which is very frustrating because I was willing to try.

Anway I just wanna know how youre suppose to catch upto a girl if she's some distance away. Hows should it be done without having to run towards them or appear that your stalking or following them?. Its really weird, and you just know they aregonna enter a girls clothing store eventually if you don't hurry up. What to do?
Author:  Facher [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 6:48 pm ]
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See it from her perspective. How many times per day does she get hit on, or even meet talkative persons who doesn't hit on her? Now, I'm no pro here, but I think she get "some chat" often enough to filter it out as _Not Important_. Remember, you need to stand out from the crowd.
Author:  FearAngel [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 6:59 pm ]
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i never found any hb in mcdonald b4. But if you want to run game on them, definitely show some interest during your initial approach. The objective is even if you didn't # close, you make her wanting you by the time you get your order.

Yeah, its probably isn't as easy as it sounds, but what the heck, that's the point of what we do.

As for street game and running down girls. Get that limiting belief that you're a stalker type out of your head. If there's a lot of ppl on the street, they all don't know you're following this girl to catch up to her/don't care.

The other way is if its a street that a public bus runs on. Go full blast and pretend you're running for a bus. Then run past the girl by 20 feet or so to give you a second to catch your breathe, then use some direct opener.

Good luck with this.
Author:  Rapture7 [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 7:08 pm ]
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Nice FearAngel I like the run for a bus right past her and pretend to wait.

But Obviously I know Im not a stalker, my main concern is if she's on to me and know that I've been trailing her she might think I am. And if she does you can pretty much guess how she will react no matter how good my opener is.
Author:  Sensei [ Mon Mar 24, 2008 12:35 am ]
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Here's a thought,

try not lookin' to hook up with a bird and try just spontaneously chattin' with whoeva comes across your path. Trust me, the less you are concerned with number or f-closin' the more successful (and happier, you will be). I've been out with a few PUAs and really it gets totally tired as they run around tryin' to hit on girls, and completely missin the point that the game is A F@C"IN' GAME, therefore it should be FUN!

When I go out I go out for a laugh, I'd recommend havin' a look at Tucker Max's website 4 a dose of humorous reality as it relates to pick up. ANd if that don't work give me a shout and I'll show you haow to do it.

Sensei.
Author:  FearAngel [ Mon Mar 24, 2008 2:04 pm ]
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With the trailing her method, just speed walk to close the distance and then walk past her slightly, so she doesn't think you're stalking her, and then turn your head towards her (while continue to walk), kino her by touching her forearm and also getting her attention, eye contact, and then run your opener, direct or indirect.
Author:  Rapture7 [ Mon Mar 24, 2008 6:03 pm ]
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Thats sounds like a good way to do it Fearangel.

Sensei you're right about just going out and having fun and you'll probably do better when your relaxed and not trying really hard. But damm I'm tired of seeing couples walking around everwhere and everyone I know asking me why don't I have a GF. Seriuosly everyone is bringing this up the only people who don't bring this up are the girls I would be interested in.
Author:  FearAngel [ Mon Mar 24, 2008 6:36 pm ]
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Thanks. One of my friends taught me this but I still don't use it consistently.
Author:  Nomadic1 [ Tue Mar 25, 2008 6:31 pm ]
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Rapt, I live in leeds and im fairly new to the sport too.

I understand a lot of what you have said in your posts and thats where age and a philosophical mind go against you. At 18 your open to anything and believe anything by late 20's early 30's you have seen it all, almost given up, become set in your ways and this makes it harder to break the mould and change things.

We should meet up and do this stuff together make it a laugh and more of a sport, I also think a partner in crime makes it easier to maintain your focus and mindset.

Anyhow sent you a pm.
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