Where I live pick up is only for the movies . Most people know each other because of schools or work .At bars and pubs if you don't have a groupe of girls already with you , chances are you're getting nothing because everyone will reject you ( tried it so many times ) .I admit I may be overexagerating because I am no casanova but really considering ISIS is right around the corner from us , women are overly defensive . Number closing usually tends to nothing because pickup is so rare that woman give their numbers for the heik of geting number closed . Numberclosing is perceived as sexual and kills the friendly vibe instantly and tends to guarantee an awkward cautious vibe later on . I am starting to believe that I am better off trying to kissclose instead of numberclosing .Am i over exagerating ? do you think I should delay number closing ( or even skip it completely and ask for something else maybe ). Help me out guys and thanks in advance
any sugestions ?