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| Author: | Rapture7 [ Thu Mar 20, 2008 11:37 pm ] |
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Hey guys I was walking down the street and these 2 girls were walking up. They were both quite cute and I think the blonde one notcied that I was looking at her for a few secs, (I try not to stare) and she flicked her hair, which caused her friend to do the same. I know this happens often when girls are grouped together its like a chain reaction. Anyway the blonde one flicked her hair again as we got closer. Of course I didnt wanna be a ogler so I just made out like I was walking past and so did they. So should I have opened? and what do you think their reaction to me would have been? |
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| Author: | sydarm [ Fri Mar 21, 2008 2:49 am ] |
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Mystery says to not open when they are walking in the other direction. Badboy doesn't care whatsoever, stops em, and goes for it. Their reaction is dependent on too much to possibly answer ur question. U'll never know unless u open. |
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| Author: | yokezg63 [ Fri Mar 21, 2008 2:57 am ] |
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If you want to open, then open. You seriously have nothing to lose. It's not like you'll ever see them again. |
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| Author: | T8SIG92 [ Fri Mar 21, 2008 4:04 am ] |
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i think thats so dumb about Mystery's not approaching a chick walking towards you. if you are on top of your game, and she gives u an IOI, i dont see why you shouldnt open her just because shes walking towards you. it must be a rule for extreme AFC's or PUAs that arent attractive. Even if you have excellent game, but are unattractive, the HB has the power to just keep walking. then if u chase after her ur gonna look like a fool its too bad you got approach anxiety. welcome to the club 
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| Author: | Rapture7 [ Fri Mar 21, 2008 1:22 pm ] |
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Yeah I see no reason not to try someone because there are walking towards you thats just stupid. I say don't block the're way but talk to them from sideways at first, if they don't open its ok but don't chase! |
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| Author: | FearAngel [ Fri Mar 21, 2008 5:18 pm ] |
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Mystery says avoid it because you're telegraphing too much interest. I don't really care, as long as you have a friendly approach. My rule of thumb is, if she's not with a guy bigger than me, and being his arm candy, then I can open her. |
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| Author: | Prez [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 2:42 am ] |
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You should have opened, i didn't even read your question. Unless she was your cousin or sister or something weird. ALWAYS OPEN |
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| Author: | Rapture7 [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 6:48 pm ] |
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Thats a good a attitude Prez. I think the town where I live people are close minded and not trusting of each other. Granted this is a good idea to always open if you can, but I still have alot of concerns regarding how people will react where I live. Granted if it was the USA where people are more outspoken I think I would have opened. But yeah in my town manners are in short supply and people here see friendlyness as a weakness they can exploit. |
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| Author: | Facher [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 6:56 pm ] |
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If you EVER doubt "Should I do X", you should do it. In this case you don't even have to take the consequences if you fuck up, so you have everythign to win and nothing to lose. Think out some good way to open walking sets in advance, so you don't have to do it on site (taking time etc). |
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| Author: | Temur/Jeskai [ Thu Mar 27, 2008 2:42 pm ] |
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Rapture, where the fuck are you from? You had an IOI staring you in the face and did jack-shit. I understand if you have AA, but if they are already interested that makes opening a whole lot easier. |
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| Author: | pozican [ Fri Mar 28, 2008 4:05 am ] |
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Quote: Rapture, where the fuck are you from? You had an IOI staring you in the face and did jack-shit. I understand if you have AA, but if they are already interested that makes opening a whole lot easier.
Agreed. I think there is a lot of merit to Mystery's "don't open when she's walking toward you" but he's assuming a cold canvas she's not interested, and not stopping. Sounds like they WERE interested, and you probably could have stopped them. |
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| Author: | The SAINT [ Fri Mar 28, 2008 8:26 am ] |
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Hey how we all doing? Live life with no regrets, and that is why you should have opened. If you would have opened you would not be questioning all this garbage instead have true answers and something to base your expansion as a person on. Its all an experiment let lose and learn from the results. ChowforNow, the--------------------------------------->Saint "Whether or not you agree with his harsh, straight to the point mentality, truth be told, he’s the most active/ dedicated / motivating member on this board. He’s routinely getting newbies and current members out sarging, pushing them into sets, given them suggestions and advice, replying to posts more often then anyone else. (Come out Wednesdays and you’ll see what I mean). Also, I have not once heard him making excuses about not going out and pussying out. If anyone else can show me this, I will automatically promote you to any status that you want on this board. (including admin). Now .. I (and others) .. have tried a more sugar coated / feel good approach to getting guys to come out. Truth be told, it hasn’t worked anywhere close as well. I'm dissappointed that with all the free resources, and the cool guys that we have offering free advice, so few people actually make use of it, go out consistantly, and get better with women, instead of dabbling and keyboard jockeying." "How did it start?Well, I dont know.I just feel the craving.I see the flesh and it smells fresh.And it's just there for the taking." "Looking at my own reflection When suddenly it changes Violently it changes Oh no there is no turning back now You've woken up the demon in me" "Only see, somehow it always seems that I'm learnin' or something I can never be It dosen't matter to me, 'cause I will always be that pimp I see in all my fantasies I don't know your fucking name.So what? Let's.fuck" "Scrutinize every word, memorize every line I spit it once, refuel, reenergize, and rewind I give sight to the blind, mind sight through the mind |
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