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Author:  smeka2000 [ Sun May 10, 2015 2:57 am ]
Post subject:  approaching a waitress
hey guys my first post here and need some help.

ive been going with my friends for after work drinks at this caffe for the last few fridays, and there is this waitress that im interested in her. ive only said hi to her few times never really talked, but i found her facebook and i was thinking off adding her on it. im not should i do it, is it going to make me look like a creep? or when i add her what should i say? any help would be greatly appreciated
Author:  Thetraveler1 [ Sun May 10, 2015 9:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: approaching a waitress
My opinion would be to not do this. You need to build up a relationship and some rapport before you add her on FB. flirt, tease her even be afc and ask how her day is going before you add her on FB
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Sun May 10, 2015 3:18 pm ]
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Yep, you'll look like a creep if you add her all right.

How about walking up to her like a man and saying hi? Or flirting if she's serving you?

I swear - some newbies these days... The damn girl is standing right in front of you and your first thought is to add her on Facebook instead of talking to her... SMH.
Author:  SpiritualGangster [ Mon May 11, 2015 12:59 am ]
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Definitely don't do that
Author:  applebottomnlp [ Fri May 15, 2015 10:06 pm ]
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Don't just add her to Facebook.

You can do something like this. Just say,"I just saw that Sci-Fi movie Ex-Machina and it was really good. Have you heard of that movie?"

(wait for her response)

You then say,"Tell me, what's the last movie you saw that made you say, damn that was a good movie?"

(wait for response)

Whatever ever type of movie she says i.e. comedy, horror, drama, you say you like those kind of movies too.You then say, why don't we exchange numbers, we can have a couple of conversations and then we can pick out a horror(if she says a horror movie) movie to go and see together.

I use this quite a bit and I get the number about 80% of the time. It's a simple way to open with a light conversation about something everyone likes.

When I ask her about the last movie that made her say damn, that was a good movie, it usually puts a little smile on their face as they think about the question.

It's also like giving a girl a money back guarantee. Look we can have a couple of conversations and then pick a movie to see together. You're basically giving her permission to say yes because you approached her in such a non threatening way.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sat May 16, 2015 9:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: approaching a waitress
You found the waitress on Facebook?

How on earth did you do that? Lol Was her last name on the name tag?

Dude, so you were afraid of talking to her at the cafe and so stalked her on the internet?

I'll tell you what my girl said.. I just read her this "How does he expect to have a relationship with someone if he can't even speak to her in person?"

And thats pretty much your answer. If you want to sell someone something you don't break into their home back door just to pitch them. You knock on the front door. Do the same with her. Knock on her front door.
Author:  CaptainJack [ Mon May 25, 2015 4:06 pm ]
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Don't just add her to Facebook.

You can do something like this. Just say,"I just saw that Sci-Fi movie Ex-Machina and it was really good. Have you heard of that movie?"

(wait for her response)

You then say,"Tell me, what's the last movie you saw that made you say, damn that was a good movie?"

(wait for response)

Whatever ever type of movie she says i.e. comedy, horror, drama, you say you like those kind of movies too.You then say, why don't we exchange numbers, we can have a couple of conversations and then we can pick out a horror(if she says a horror movie) movie to go and see together.

I use this quite a bit and I get the number about 80% of the time. It's a simple way to open with a light conversation about something everyone likes.

When I ask her about the last movie that made her say damn, that was a good movie, it usually puts a little smile on their face as they think about the question.

It's also like giving a girl a money back guarantee. Look we can have a couple of conversations and then pick a movie to see together. You're basically giving her permission to say yes because you approached her in such a non threatening way.
This is a great little routine. I'm going to add it to my repertoire :P

Fits in nicely with my "watch Netflix and chill" strategy.

Captain Jack
Author:  Ryanm74 [ Fri May 29, 2015 12:06 am ]
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Dude, say something to her before adding. lol looks creepy af.
Author:  sarabellum [ Fri May 29, 2015 4:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: approaching a waitress
Quote:
ive been going with my friends for after work drinks at this caffe for the last few fridays, and there is this waitress that im interested in her...what should i say?
A: Nothing. Waitresses are approached by men at work every day. Like airline stewardesses (trying to get with the captain or guys in 1st class), pharmaceutical sales girls (trying to get with the doctors), chicks in sororities (trying to hook future doctors), chicks in med school (same story), etc, they are there to sell their booties to a guy with BIG bucks not anything else.

In college I dated chicks on campus, who were part-time waitresses. Just say no.
Author:  Black Phantom [ Sat Jun 20, 2015 11:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: approaching a waitress
It's probably NOT going to be creepy to add her on Facebook, because she probably has a tone of
needy insecure guys adding her on Facebook already.

It won't be anything new to her.

You'll just one of the many.

If you can, try teasing her as she brings you coffee or whatever you're drinking.

Say something like, "Well it was about time this coffee showed up, I was ready to
call the manager..."

Of course, say it in a fun tone.

Be ON HER CASE, almost like antagonise her with teasing when you come in. Make yourself visible
and stand out.

And then also be nice. Once you get her attention, and you show her that you are different than
most guys who come there, then ask her normal questions.

Ask her "So what else do you do besides bringing late coffee to guys here?" and smile.

Get to know her, and then plainly just say, "What would you say if I take you for coffee for
a change?"

Be very nonchalant about it. Don't hide your intentions, she is used to guys hiding them a lot.

This is my way of "picking up" waitress that works literally every time.

If anxiety is your problem, check my signature.

Wish you best,
Author:  PatrickAnanda [ Mon Jun 22, 2015 8:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: approaching a waitress
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hey guys my first post here and need some help.

ive been going with my friends for after work drinks at this caffe for the last few fridays, and there is this waitress that im interested in her. ive only said hi to her few times never really talked, but i found her facebook and i was thinking off adding her on it. im not should i do it, is it going to make me look like a creep? or when i add her what should i say? any help would be greatly appreciated
Abso-freaking-lutely do not add her haha

Come on mate, you're better than that!

Let me tell you something that changed my life: Nothing in life worth having comes easy.

It means you will have to work for it. It means you will have to show up like a man. It means you will have to risk rejection, risk embarrassment, risk disappointment, risk pain.

But you're still here, you're still with me, and that's good! I believe in your courage.

There are tons of techniques out there for women who are working, but in reality, I've found that the easiest way to go about it is to be completely honest. I met my ex girlfriend that way. She was a waitress.

I walked into the restaurant, past everyone, right up to her, looked deep into her eyes and said "I'm going to be honest with you, I don't want to eat anything. I just think you're absolutely stunning and I wanted to meet you".

Try it out and let me know how it goes.
to your success brother

your fan,
Mack
Author:  DrewDating [ Mon Jun 22, 2015 10:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: approaching a waitress
Quote:
hey guys my first post here and need some help.

ive been going with my friends for after work drinks at this caffe for the last few fridays, and there is this waitress that im interested in her. ive only said hi to her few times never really talked, but i found her facebook and i was thinking off adding her on it. im not should i do it, is it going to make me look like a creep? or when i add her what should i say? any help would be greatly appreciated
what ever you do, do not add her - yes it is creepy

meet up with her again, keep showing up and build a connection that way or get a reason to get her number/facebook next time you are there and see her.

dont just randomly add her
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