Gents,
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I hope you’re well. Tonight was not one of my better nights, but it was alright. I managed to get a good number close and had a failed escalation with another Persian chick. I insisted on going to a certain area. One of my best friends who is a bartender texted me for wingman assistance since one of two girls was all over him. I texted back for more info since I wasn’t going to drive to his place unless there was a solid chance of the girls’ staying there with him. Too late – He texted 40 minutes later and ended up banging both of them in the bathroom during work. Lol – I should have gone there earlier and listened to him.
So, I have a question related to another interaction. I could use your advice. I avoid cold-approaching when possible at my college so that I don’t get a bad reputation if I am not successful. But, there is this one French girl who has given me clear IOI’s on two occasions and she is the only girl whom I wanted to approach directly. I am indirect with all other college girls. Part of my problem is that I don’t command with much authority and having dominant body language is unnatural for me. I am working on this.
I ran into that French girl tonight on my way out of my dorm. She looked smoking. This was not a smooth interaction since she caught me off guard and I was not warmed up. We saw each other and…
I said: “Hey, how’ve you been?”
She: “Good. How are you?”
I: “I am quite well. O wow, it looks as if you just got back from Woodrow’s.”
She: “O, I am about to go somewhere with friends. Where are you going?”
I: “O, I am going somewhere which is fun. Hey, I have to go in a second, but come over here for a moment.”
I tried to pull her aside since we were standing in front of the door and I wanted to get her out of the way so that I could talk to her for a minute or two. But, I didn’t get compliance since she said that her friends were waiting for her. It is possible that they were in a car and were watching us out front; I don’t know.
Is there a way to perform damage control or should I put her in the friend zone?
-Nice Guy