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Author:  psiconauta [ Mon Feb 16, 2015 3:30 pm ]
Post subject:  I had fcloses... BUT I DONT KNOW HOW TO APPROACH!!!
Ive started in this pua stuff like 4 months ago. Ive banged 3 girls by now... thing is , Ive already knew those girls from the past.

One of them was my ex, the other one was an old friend of mine, and the last one was just a girl I saw in a class like 2 years ago.

My problem comes when APPROACHING to girls Ive just seen.

Any ideas?
Author:  fudge_88 [ Mon Feb 16, 2015 4:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I had fcloses... BUT I DONT KNOW HOW TO APPROACH!!!
Try fate openers

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Read through to my post where I address the dynamic situation no one else had an answer for.
Author:  Black Phantom [ Sat Feb 21, 2015 6:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I had fcloses... BUT I DONT KNOW HOW TO APPROACH!!!
You haven't really specified what about approaching is causing you problems?

Is it the FEAR of approaching women, or is it not knowing HOW to approach, what to say
when you start a conversation and how to keep it going?

Or maybe it's both?

In any case, if you want to approach women, the first step is to get rid of your fear.

There is a lot of advice on how to approach women out there. From saying Hi to
random women on the street to asking women for time and directions.

However, I have to say that the best way to get rid of your fear of approaching
women, is to actually go out and start talking to women cold.

Nothing is more effective than the real experience of you being out there and
talking with women.

However, if you feel your fear is paralysing for you, I invite you to try out my
1-hour Approach Anxiety Cure technique, and start with that. You can get
the details in my signature.

The second part to approaching women is the actual skill of knowing HOW to.

So WHAT to say to start a conversation.

How to keep the conversation going, what to do if you get Brain Stuck
and how to lead to the next level of asking for her number or asking
her out.

There is much more to it then I can fit in a forum post, but the basic
outline is that, when you see a girl you'd like to talk to, WALK over
there and SAY something.

The easiest thing to do is just to say "Hey, what's up?"

Guys make it much more complicated than it really is, because in reality, women
WANT you to talk to them...they just don't want to be the first to say something.

If you just say "Hey, what's up?", and you shut up after that, the majority of women
will start talking to you, and ask you questions back.

Practice makes perfect, but you gotta start.

As I said, approach anxiety is what makes or breaks you.

So if you feel anxious about saying something, you need to solve that
first.

Hope I was able to make this a little more clear to you,
Author:  Killinitjulz [ Mon Feb 23, 2015 3:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I had fcloses... BUT I DONT KNOW HOW TO APPROACH!!!
I have the same damn problem lol, i'm gonna watch this thread to see if you get any good tips,
all i could think of it just practice though man.
Author:  WAMaroon [ Mon Feb 23, 2015 3:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I had fcloses... BUT I DONT KNOW HOW TO APPROACH!!!
Dont want to derail this thread but I thought maybe asking specific sticking points may help.

I find that walking straight up to someone and saying "I think you are cute" or some variant of honesty results in a polite "I have a boyfriend" or "thanks" at best. This falls into giving needless compliments based on looks which doesnt work but how else can you start up a conversation when you are walking down the street or are in the bar and see an attractive woman you want to open?

Another along a similar vein is how do we express interest and high value at the same time? Hanging out in bars and clubs, I mostly see guys hit on everyone and get blown out, the reason being they should focus on having fun and not hitting on girls. I suppose the advantage of a bar or club setting is that it is naturally high energy and is conducive to allow you to casually talk to people but such a setting cannot be translated to the streets or day game.
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