You won't find anyone who can help you here that has knowledge of how different styles resonate with different female psychologies.
Well, anyone besides me.
You want 5? I'll give you 8.
Here is my top secret 8 path framework.
After learning pandora's box and stealth seduction this was born. - This framework is still being developed because now I am pouring in the teaching of justin Wayne.
So I'll give this to you since I will soon be doing something much better. This will be a long post.
First. Understand female psychology.
She has 3 things she has to deal with. 3 problems. When it comes to relationships and dating.
Time, Sex, Relationship.
Each of these problems she will have 2 ways of dealing with it.
Time: This is how she invests her time with men. One is called a tester. The other an investor.
Testers will typically have many male friends. She spends her time with different male options and pulls certain characteristics from each of them to form her "perfect man" from the group.
The Investor will focus all of her time in one man and has very few if any male friends. She takes a guy with potential and tries to make him better, or more like how she wants him to be in ways she thinks is better. T vs. N
Sex: This is how the woman views sex with men. One is called a denier, and the other a justifier.
The denier will typically deny anything having to do with sex. She gets uncomfortable talking about sex or anything related to sex. Sex holds great emotional value to her. The justifier is numb to sex and will sleep with men easily. Sex to her is more like a hand shake and she often has hundreds of partners. She justifies the sex in her head, the other denies all sex. A justifier will typically drink, have tattoos, piecings, and/or wear provocative clothing. Denier obviously will typically not do those things and is a very religious girl, or one with strong morals, and values. You won't see her showing off a lot of flesh usually. A party girl vs a church girl. D vs. J
Relationships: This is how the woman views a relationship with a man. One is called a realist, and the other an idealist. The realist has a career and goals and can take care of herself. She views men and woman on a more equal playing field and will be more likely to buy you a drink then the opposite. Idealist this is the snow white woman. The homemaker who dreams of the picket fence the children, and the dog. She will want you to pay for everything and take care of her and her needs. R vs I
Now, combining these you discover 8 different psychologies of woman. TDR, TDI, TJR, TJI, NDR, NDI, NJR, NJI.
Now each woman responds differently to approaches in entirely different way depending on the mix of her psychology. You can't walk up and run a game on a NDR that is meant for and only works on a TJI.
When first starting out I focused on the clubs. The girl you will mostly find in the club is a TJI. That's why people find it hard to form relationship or meaningful connections with women by spam approaching women in clubs. TJI's are known as social butterflies for a reason. You get their attention quickly and lose it just as fast, and she doesn't care she is cold on the inside and justifies all of her actions including any fucked up traits. I don't like these women very much...
Anyway, that is a basic run down for a more complete overview I suggest you check out pandora's box, but the system is about 600.00 so that's why I'm the only one on this forum with the knowledge.
Ok, now that you know that lets go over the opener/framework.
I don't like cold approaching. It's a really bad style, I do what you consider a warm approach. After a quick preliminary analysis similar to what you may have seen in limitless.
First off we have the situation. 3 types of situations.
Dynamic, static, Dynamic-instatic
Dynamic is when there is a small window to approach like if you see a girl walking towards you and you're walking in the opposite direction.
Static is when there is an extended period of time between you and the girl. Like standing in line, or sitting on the bus.
Dynamic-instatic is a mixure of the two, mainly clubs and bars.
You have to approach each situation differently.
Wow so you told me I have 8 different types of women in 3 different types of situations. that means there are 24 different ways to go about this? If I use this one method or routine then I'll only be able to get 1 out of 24 women?
No. It actually gets deeper than that...
In each situation you have 3 types of women. Yes, NO, and Maybe girls.
A yes girl will be attracted to you as soon as she sees you, but if you don't use the correct thing for her psychology and/or you don't approach the situation correctly you will turn her into a no girl, and get rejected. No girls are unavailable to you, period. Maybe girls are on the fence about you, and if you don't hit the situation correctly, her psychology correctly, AND do a little more (Enter Justine Wayne - this I haven't mastered in the field yet so I won't speak on it) she will reject you.
This represents that 1 in 100 figure that these gurus throw out when telling guys to just follow their system, spam approach and you will get the girl.
Damn a lot to take in isn't it? I've internalized all of this stuff except the maybe girl skills so I'm no master yet. What I'm going to give you is the framework for getting all of the yes girls that you can get. Remember though that this will still only work on about 1 in 3 women you see. If you're an ugly motherf****r then it might not be 1 in 3. It might be 1 in 10! Factor in variance as well because it's not like you will run into 1 yes girl for every 2-9 unavailable ones. It doesn't work like that in the real world. You might run into 5-30 unable women before you walk past an available one. Or you might run into 4 available ones one after the other.
Imagine using an approach on the wrong girl in the wrong setting while being disqualified by your looks at the beginning...
This is why you see threads where guys are talking about "600 approaches and no lays", and 007 who has made videos of nearly 300 approaches and no lays... PU is too focused on the man, it should really be focused on the woman that you are trying to seduce, but the pioneers have set the wrong tone that everyone else has jumped off of.
Dynamic Framework -
Have your phone on your ear and enjoy a conversation with yourself. Just laugh and be really crazy and have fun with it. Maintain strong body language as you walk, shoulders pulled back chest up pelvis forward like you are penetrating a giant pussy, head held high and taking long strides. Stay focused on the phone and don't look at anyone or anything directly, as if you are in your own little world and nothing outside matters. Use your peripheral vision to spot the girl.
When you spot her asses her sex line. In your peripheral vision while talking on the phone and laughing look at how she is dressed, any visible tattoos or piercings. It should be almost instantaneous, if she is a Justifier you can use as much sexual tension as you want. (Note this does not mean talk about sex directly with you and her, or make comments on her being sexy or comments on her body, no woman likes that stuff up front.)
OK so you have D or J already figured out. Keep talking and closing the distance. When she gets into about a 6 foot radius you made a sudden gesture or movement that attracts her eye towards you. (this whole time you were not looking at her) Then look her square in the eye with a curious look on your face with a slight smirk. This is an investor test, it happens in a split of a second. A SPLIT OF A SECOND, and it will force an IOI out of her.
If she is interested in you and she is an investor she will return the strong eye contact and will smile lick her lips play with her hair or do something. I was shocked by this reaction when I first got it. It's so intense man...You won't believe it at first. Expect this to happen with like one in 35 girls that pass by you. She is an investor and is pretty much ready to go. You will perform a direct approach on this woman. Investors need direct approaches. Indirect stuff will turn them off immediately.
If she is a tester and is interested in you, she will break the eye contact and appear nervous. She will look down at her feet, and may play with her hair. Looking down at the feet is the signal of tester and interest. This is the most common reaction. You need to perform an indirect approach on her. Direct stuff is too intense and will turn her off immediately. During the conversation she will say something that will give you an opportunity to go direct. This window has to be taken or it will be closed, sometimes forever.
A no/maybe girl will either look off to the side indicating she is not interested, or will avoid looking at you entirely even when you make the hand gesture. This is because she is consciously preventing herself from looking at you because she is either afraid of the interaction or she is caught up in some thought and distracted from the world.
You can approach these women if you like, but it will be fighting an uphill battle. I'm studying the ways of these women now through Justin Wayne because I want to expand my choice even further than what I already have.
Man...I've been typing a long time. I haven't even gotten to the actual interaction after the opener, or the other 2 situations yet. I'm going to call it for now, if you are curious about the other stuff just send me a PM. You have an opener that is better than everything else you will find on this forum, or in the world for that matter in the dynamic situation.
Get into a heavy foot traffic area and do this with every girl that crosses your path, and run your favorite direct/indirect thing. This type of "approach" is done in a few instants and will allow you to "approach" massive numbers of women without anyone else even seeing what is going on.
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