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| Author: | New guy [ Tue Mar 11, 2008 7:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Text game (NEED SERIOUS HELP!!!) |
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| Author: | Flamboyant [ Tue Mar 11, 2008 7:25 am ] |
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"before I got her number I would always catch her looking at me. " go from here, be confident, n PHONE HER, don text no more. phone her at the same time as when u first texted her gdnite. a gd opener, and an innocent one can be like: "hey, going to bed yet? im tired texting, and i think hearing ur voice before i sleep 'd make me have the sweetest dream ever" go from there, n before u phone her, just think of her as one of ur cousins that u care, so when u say all those caring shits, u wudn't get nervous. stop texting, i've got bad experience w/ it. they like guys texting them ONLY if u talk to them verbally and see them in person as well. plain texting creeps the hell outta them girls. |
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| Author: | hollywoodinpa [ Tue Mar 11, 2008 4:51 pm ] |
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a gd opener, and an innocent one can be like: "hey, going to bed yet? im tired texting, and i think hearing ur voice before i sleep 'd make me have the sweetest dream ever" This is AFC you just meet her. Sorry no disrespect. The rest of his advise was good. Also texting is good in moderation. I do it alot to send jokes, and when I'm to busy to talk. Girls also love to text, but keep it fun. I love doing things like picture game with a girl. Tell her she has to send the 5th pic in her phone no matter what it is and she can't CHEAT !! Then you do the same with a DHV pic. See guys this is just an example, but It's so easy... Confidence is key and to relate yourself with this image you must call. Good convo starter, PUA " Hey squirrel before you go to sleep. I have a ? If you could be any where in the world right now where would you be? Why? HB " bla bla bla" PUA Is paying attenion. So after she's done he can something cool to continue this rapport like " Wow that's nice I'd like to be in egypt sitting on the sphinx sun tanning because bla bla bla...." Get my point be interesting and different then the rest. Ask cool questions and find out alot more things about her personality this way.. Pluss since your different you will get a day 2 everytime. |
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| Author: | shoofy [ Tue Mar 11, 2008 5:17 pm ] |
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Well personally I don't like texting new HB's. They love it though but it’s not like talking were you can say anything and get a good convo out of it of your voice tone and body language. When I do text HB's my rule is keep it interesting and fun. Like here is a great example Me: Hey Kelly Her: ….Kelly this is Kaity Me: Opps wrong person my bad. Well anyways what going on Her: LOL ohh nice. I’m doing blablabla Me: Well since boring let’s play a really fun game. I call it the question game. Her: Ok how do you play? Me: Okay three Rule’s 1 You can't ask the same question that's already been asked. 2 You ask a question then me, and 3 you go first! Her: That’s not fair! Me: Okay, how many boyfriends have you had? (Start with this since she can't use it back against you) *Lead the conversation in a sexual manner and go from there. |
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| Author: | New guy [ Tue Mar 11, 2008 6:16 pm ] |
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Okay thanks guys any other advice would be appreciated. Oh sorry but im new to this what exactly does all this below mean? DHV AFC NEG |
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| Author: | hollywoodinpa [ Tue Mar 11, 2008 6:37 pm ] |
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NEG = Is a back handed compliment. Example NEG Your nails look nice. Are they real? AFC = Is the Average Frustrated Chump. Example AFC is most guys that aren’t keen on how to seduce women. DHV = Demonstration of Higher Value Example DVH is when you’re in conversation with a women or group, and you say something to give your self value. With out them noticing like you’re a try hard... “So I was with a bunch a girls. When all the sudden my friend Karrie tripped and hurt her leg. It was so funny, but she made me carry her to her house. Wow and it's a long haul like a 1/2 mile lol. " |
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| Author: | hollywoodinpa [ Tue Mar 11, 2008 6:40 pm ] |
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Also a DHV pic example. A pic of you and three girls with smiles haveing fun !! |
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| Author: | shoofy [ Tue Mar 11, 2008 6:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Meanings |
Abbreviations created by a pickup artist known as Mystery. That most people in the pickup community use. DHV= Demonstration of higher value, anything that conveys higher S-and-R value (S and R= Survival and Replication) AFC= An armchair pickup artist who is actually just a nice guy with a tendency to place women on a pedestal, only to have them walk all over him. Rarely closes his targets NEG= A subtle-yet-negative statement that puts a target off-guard and makes her question her own value, increasing yours on a relative basis |
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| Author: | barcelona [ Tue Mar 11, 2008 9:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | text message guidelines |
texting is great in getting to know a woman without being too creepy or intrusive. works great with younger girls, as they never talk on the phone anymore and you don't have to worry about being nervous. but you still have to know what you're doing cuz you can still totally blow it via text. first off, every text you send must be at least witty and interesting, boring texts = boring person. don't ever text stuff like, "so hey like what are you up to". BORING!!! use it to show you're a fun guy thats interesting, dont play 20 questions with her, make statements that are witty and or interesting and maybe throw in one question at the end, she will come back with some questions herself. first text guidelines after meeting someone, which i think it's a great way to make initial contact. never go in great detail about who you were, if you have to totally remind her who the hell you are, u didn't make much of an impression and you come off like a chump that nobody remembers. if it was a quick close maybe something like, "hey met you at so n so bar" is enough cuz if she is actually hot she will meet lots of guys but let her inquire more if she is not sure. a true pua makes women work for your attention, not the other way around. also always be the one to end the text message session for that day; similar to the phone, you end the conversation and tell her you have to get going, don't wait for her to say she has to get going; that means after you've exchanged a FEW texts and on the last response from her, don't reply back. if she asked you a question in the last response, answer her back tomorrow. don't make sexual innuedos either or come off horny when texting initially. this will usually backfire and turn her off as that is what most guys do and a pua does not act like most guys. every girl is sexual and gets horny and she will move it in that direction when she is comfortable, your job is to make her comfortable not UNcomfortable. don't feel like you have to text everyday, i know you want to but try to resist until you feel you've gotten to the hook point, at that point she will notice when you don't text her and will start to initiate texts to you. being entertaining and interesting in text is key, use it to entertain and build rapport and trust in you. in regards to this problem, i would probably slow it down at this point, wait a couple days and then come back with something like this: "Hey bin swamped lately, i just won da lottery n hav bin busy thinking about what to do with my new loot, any ideas on how to spend the 20 bucks?". this should get you a guaranteed response, then use the guidelines above. if you don't get a response from her, you're done and you need to move on. getting a no response means she's probably not interested and you already blew it somehow. |
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| Author: | New guy [ Tue Mar 11, 2008 10:18 pm ] |
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thanks |
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| Author: | AV8OR [ Wed Mar 12, 2008 1:45 am ] |
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plain and simple the next time she texts u dont text her back until the next day maybe before your going to bed have her wait on you, this will leave her wondering if shes said something wrong but she'll be the on wonderng wat the hell is going on, back in dublin its all about texting and shit know quite alot about it, so the next night u text her text her something like hey cudnt text back last nite was busy and had a lot of shit today im off 2 bed giv us a text in the morning sleep well night Plain and Simple!! |
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