So there's this girl on Tinder that I've been snapchatting with for 2 weeks. Early on I asked when are we going for a date, she replied that she had to get done with some assignments first, but continued by asking questions about me (profession etc.) So I played along.
This Monday the snapping got a bit sexually (I commented on the cleavage in her snap, she replied "big boobs problem" with a smile, I replied "no problem" showing my hands, she replied with lol smileys). I decided I wanted to ask her out the next day.
I started with a casual snap without questions Tuesday thinking she would rapidly reply. No reply. So I waited until Thursday and sent another one (still without question). No reply. (Earlier it has been about 50/50 who started snapping)
Meanwhile I saw that there was a new guy in town, reaching the top of her best friends list on Snapchat. We're not FB friends, but today (Friday) I saw that they befriended on FB (note: they're attending same university and same age, I'm 5 years older).
I decided to move on, but much to my surprise she sent me a casual snap today. We sent a couple, then I wrote that I thought I was suppose to take the hint when she didnt reply to my snaps earlier in the week (With a snap of me somewhat smiling so I didnt seem angry). She said she had a bad internet at home (bullshit reason) and I just replied "...Ok
" with a quirky smile. She replied saying she's getting the internet replaced Tuesday (probably true, but still BS reason). She's on a trip for the weekend so I just replied with "Have a good trip
" (not sure if that's the correct phrase in English) no face on snap, just black background, and that's the last snap (and I intended so)
My take is that he hit the nail as to when to ask her out, went on a date, and failed. If she wanted me as a backup (and continue to be a backup) she would have replied to my snaps. As to how I feel about her seeing someone I dont really blame her, the progress has been slow (due to the initial rejection) although fun, and I've been talking to others as well setting up dates.
So I'm happy with my freeze out, but I'm afraid I acted like an AFC when confronting her and might have come off as angry in the "have a good trip" snap. Are my odds good? If she's not snapchatting me I'm thinking of doing it Wednesday. (Tuesday is a perfect day for her to show off the new ADSL or whatever).