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| Author: | esco045 [ Sat Aug 23, 2014 7:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | i need help ..!!what comes next! |
I do maintamance to gym eqiptment once a month last month i noticed one of the girls that works there was noticing me . I pussyed out and disnt say anything ro her ...this month when i returned i said fuck it ..and i went rite up to her .... Me: hi..(with smile and eye contact) Her: hi ..(smile .in and out of eye contact) Me : yur alway here erlier than every one .so what do you do yur a trainer Her: yes. im a p.t (blahh blah some gym stuff) Me: Oh cool thats interesting do you live in the city im actualy not from around im from long island. Her no im from queens ...my aunt is from l.i ...i go to long beach alot .... Me : do you hang out in the beach Her: yeah i loke going on the board walk Then some other workers walked in and i said . Me:ok i got get back to work Her: ok ( smile) I dont know what happend but i can talk to girls when were alone but when there are people around im a pussy i disnt have get back to work All day a saw her as i walked back and forth but i just smile at her and it felt akward i didnt know how the start conversation again and she seam to want to talk to me as well but i geuss she wanted me to initiate . Im goin back next month but i dont know if i should pursue it or what... |
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| Author: | Rebooting [ Mon Aug 25, 2014 4:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: i need help ..!!what comes next! |
Nah man, I guess you choked because you were afraid of making a fool out of yourself in front of other people (and your set got disrupted, that is not optimal neither). I don't think she will disqualify you for that. Just continue talking to her next month (maybe at a moment where it doesn't look like she is super busy and you guys will be interrupted again). Maybe talk to her for a while and then go back to the beach subject and go like... "hey, I like doing XYZ/XYZ place there. Wanna join me some time next week? Should be fun! (but make sure to talk to her and give her some good vibes before). |
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| Author: | esco045 [ Mon Aug 25, 2014 5:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: i need help ..!!what comes next! |
Yeah that sound like a good idea. I dont have any problem approaching girls at all but only if they are alone once some one comes around i choke it happend time after time . I opened 3 different girls last night and they were all alone and when the people they were with showed up tryed speeding things up and tryed to #close asap. Which the were taken by surprise and told me NO!and gave me some b.s excuse .any advice on how to get passed this problem |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Aug 25, 2014 5:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: i need help ..!!what comes next! |
If you do wind up with her number, and you start texting with her, you drastically need to improve your grammar - maybe you're on a mobile while posting this, but it's pretty tough read. Spelling is a wonderful quality girls love. |
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| Author: | Rebooting [ Mon Aug 25, 2014 7:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: i need help ..!!what comes next! |
Quote: Yeah that sound like a good idea.
Adapt. You should always be mentally prepared for your set to turn into a different one, be it a one set into a two set or a two set into a three set or whatever. Don't think the rest of the group will hate you for stealing that girl or whatever. They don't even know if/where you know her from. I dont have any problem approaching girls at all but only if they are alone once some one comes around i choke it happend time after time . I opened 3 different girls last night and they were all alone and when the people they were with showed up tryed speeding things up and tryed to #close asap. Which the were taken by surprise and told me NO!and gave me some b.s excuse .any advice on how to get passed this problem Technically seen, there is not much you can do. Just introduce yourself to the group, talk to all of them and once you have won the trust of the entire group (which, at the same time, will serve as a good DHV) continue with your target where you stopped and, should there be enough chemistry, try to isolate her (for example, taking her to a couch in a club or to the cafeteria at university). Obviously, this will only be feasible when the set is larger than a two set. Should your target be with only one more person (and they don't want to get sepparated) and you lacking a wing, I guess you are shit outta luck. Either way, don't overrush things or skip any necessary steps or it will just come over as weird and needy. If you lose the set for reasons that are out of your control (like the group REALLY wanting to leave) then it's just bad luck. But that doesn't hurt nearly as much as having no one but yourself to blame, eh? But yeah. No need to get all worried about this. Often, when it comes to "winning over the group" (although the more they like you, the better) just showing them that you are not crazed sex maniac psycho killer should suffice. It's not like girls (or even guy friends) try to purposely cockblock their female friends. Hell, she might even choose to stay talking to you, depending on how much attraction you have generated and how important the interruption is! |
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