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| Author: | Noitartst [ Wed Jul 16, 2014 11:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Moving Past the Conversational Pauses |
I've been getting better flirting as I've gotten more confident. In fact, yesterday, I practiced an insight I hadn't done previous due to lack of nerve. I'd heard from a speaker on Youtube that in the conversational pauses, if you wait, the girl will fill them circa three-quarters of the time. Well, yerterday, I tried it on an eight, a hired gun at the gym, and she kept the conversation going twice that way. This insight, and vote of confidence, will make things easier, going forward. Oh, and I flirted with another girl there, yesterday. Commenting on her dyed hair (I called her a witch, a week, or so, earlier) I asked if it was to keep men from hitting on her. She said no, to which I asked if it was working, to which she burst out laughing. Later, after seeing her flirt with someone else, I asked if he was her fiance. She said no, to which I said, "Too bad; I was hoping you'd introduce me." All this got me another burst of laughter, and the assurance she will intorduce me. Raised the stakes, I did; gotta put up or shutup if she does, but I'm at least being confident, and that's presently working. |
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| Author: | ConfidenceMatters [ Thu Jul 17, 2014 7:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Moving Past the Conversational Pauses |
It happens really frequently. Introverts generally get the butt-end of this deal and people treat them as "therapists". Being TOO talkative can come off as nervous in a lot of regards. Just learn to be cool and confident. |
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| Author: | Noitartst [ Thu Jul 17, 2014 8:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Moving Past the Conversational Pauses |
What happens frequently? I'm not sure what you're referring to exactly in what I said. Oh--you mean that I'm on the verge of figuring out the if I allow, girls will talk forever? Well, so far, that hasn't been much of an issue, given I've been doing so much stumbling around in the initial thirty or-so seconds. |
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