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Anyone know some good cures for "nice guy" syndrome?
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Author:  Freddo [ Tue Jul 08, 2014 6:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Anyone know some good cures for "nice guy" syndrome?
I think I've deeply internalized the idea that you just don't show intent / attraction to a woman you just meet on the street or in public. You have to be "friendly" with her and "nice" and "respectful."

I think this is a big sticking point for me. For a noob at least, I'm reasonably good at doing the very initial opening in a set. Once it gets beyond the very initial opening, I literally go blank. Minutes after I leave the room I think very lucidly of nice additional ways I could have gone (saying she's cute, whatever) but when I'm in it, my mind freezes up.

Suggestions? Just keep looking for these situations and plow through them?
Author:  ConfidenceMatters [ Tue Jul 08, 2014 7:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Anyone know some good cures for "nice guy" syndrome?
12 step red pill program

Step 1 - We admitted we were powerless over our addiction to being a passive-aggressive beta male
Step 2 - Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity
Step 3 - Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of the red pill ("PUA") community
Step 4 - Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves
Step 5 - Admitted to ourselves and to our fellow red pill believers the exact nature of our wrongs
Step 6 - Were entirely ready to have the red pill community remove all these defects of character
Step 7 - Humbly asked to remove our shortcomings
Step 8 - Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all
Step 9 - Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others
Step 10 - Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it
Step 11 - Sought through meditation to improve our conscious contact with ourselves as a successful alpha male as we understand what it means to be an Alpha male, praying only for knowledge of and the power to carry that out
Step 12 - Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to other addicts, and to practice these principles in all our affairs
Author:  NinjaSeduction [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 12:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Anyone know some good cures for "nice guy" syndrome?
Hey man, I think that you need to sarge some more. I used to have the same problem, but I got rid of it through lots of practice in the field. Remember, pickup is a skill. You will eventually learn to relax and not worry too much about the interaction.

Here are some tips for your street game:

1. Say something really intriguing in the opener. I personally prefer opinion openers, and direct openers.

2. Don't worry too much about offending her. Unfortunately, you will make mistakes when learning. Embrace the mistakes and learn from them.

3. Be really fun and interesting. Keep the conversation going. Enjoy the interaction. Make it fun for both you and her.

I wish I could give you more details right now, but unfortunately I am in a hurry... However, if you want to learn some more, I have a FREE EBOOK on my website that will teach you the 5 Secrets to Getting Hot Girls Today. Be sure to check it out!

Later
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 1:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Anyone know some good cures for "nice guy" syndrome?
Quote:
I think I've deeply internalized the idea that you just don't show intent / attraction to a woman you just meet on the street or in public. You have to be "friendly" with her and "nice" and "respectful."

I think this is a big sticking point for me. For a noob at least, I'm reasonably good at doing the very initial opening in a set. Once it gets beyond the very initial opening, I literally go blank. Minutes after I leave the room I think very lucidly of nice additional ways I could have gone (saying she's cute, whatever) but when I'm in it, my mind freezes up.

Suggestions? Just keep looking for these situations and plow through them?

1. Lose the 4th grade mentality of "I don't know if she likes me so I'm not gonna tell her I like her."

2. Stop looking for approval from everyone. This is something that "nice guys" do. It's different being a good person... But when you're nice to people because you want them to like you... It's creepy.

3. This kinda ties into the previous part... But stop being so nice to people. It's much better to be remembered as some crazy, off the wall guy vs "Oh, he was nice..."

4. Take the filter off your brain that connects to your mouth. Say WHATEVER comes to your mind. Be genuine. When you put up this "nice guy" front... it comes off as super fake. Girls like a guy who's REAL.
Author:  NaughtyNapoleon [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 2:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Anyone know some good cures for "nice guy" syndrome?
Haha. You probably should check out the core concept on getting girls by my good friend -Diophantus grey, which he wrote it in his book - Sex Beast The Awaken.

That's a total badass way of getting girl (very effective).
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 4:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Anyone know some good cures for "nice guy" syndrome?
Learn to say NO and only say 'Yes' when a girl has earned it. When a girl has not done anything to earn your attention, approval or good graces, ALWAYS say NO.
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 5:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Anyone know some good cures for "nice guy" syndrome?
Use your "niceness" to be super confident, touchy/feely and escalate like a Spanish/Frenchman would.
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