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Author:  Webcam38 [ Sat Jun 28, 2014 12:42 pm ]
Post subject:  How to chat-up HB sitting in the park waiting for Bf?
Ok, it was a park with fishing lake in the middle. She waited, waited, waited for boyfriend. I don't like these sets because these HBs say: OK, but I am waiting for somebody! So then I start saying bad things about the boyfriend like:
He has no respect for you by being so late! Then they say protectively: "BUt he is doing it for me, for us, that lot of overtime." And I answer: Anyway when he finally arrives, he will be boring: he will say how annoying his boss is, talk about the World Cup and then himself as allways, he never asks about you! They usually say yes, but then I go into interview mode because I dont have the tools to sexualize the conversation. What more should I say? Assumptions? How to calibrate?
Author:  Black Phantom [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 7:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to chat-up HB sitting in the park waiting for Bf?
Some girls are not waiting for their boyfriends, but are just trying to knock off any guys
who are trying to get some.

So a lot of them will throw the boyfriend thing.

When you're getting all logical about what she said with her you're shooting yourself
in the foot, because

A) She probably doesn't have a boyfriend

B) If she does, she's probably not waiting for him. She just said that to get rid of you.

The goal is not to convince her logically to why her boyfriend sucks (lol) but to
make her smile about it.

So stupid excuse deserves a stupid answer.

Not a logical explanation.

One of the guys I used to coach gave me the best come back to when a girl says she
has a boyfriend.

He told me about this one time when he started talking to a girl, and all of the blue she
said "You know I have a boyfriend..."

He, without blinking immediately said, "Really?? I have a dog..."

BAM.

The girl smiles and you get an entry to a conversation with her.

So let me say it again. When she says she has a boyfriend, don't take it too seriously.

Make fun out of it, and then keep the convo going.
Author:  Webcam38 [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 5:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to chat-up HB sitting in the park waiting for Bf?
But this one was looking at the bus stop nervously, and was made-up to go out, with a fake prada in her hands...
Author:  Versalis [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 5:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to chat-up HB sitting in the park waiting for Bf?
NEVER side against the boyfriend. TAKE his side(just not in a girl vs guy sense).

This happened to me once. I was out and supposed to meet a girl, but I got stuck in a long ass traffic stop line, and my phone died. You seem too cool to date some guy who doesn't have enough respect for you to show up when he says he would. You're absolutely my type, so I know what kind of guys you date ;)

Either she'll agree with you, or correct you and tell you what a loser he is. In either case, you just told her you're interested. Read her body language. If she's open to you, say something like "I'm going to X, I'd ask you to join me, but I think you secretly enjoy waiting here".
Author:  Webcam38 [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 6:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to chat-up HB sitting in the park waiting for Bf?
HBs when they see me they are not atracted instantly, epecially when they are off from work, on the bus and I show up and try to break into their universes. I often work with attraction that is not there.
And I have women comming up to me after a social or outdoor event saying: I didnt know before that you were cool.
Author:  Webcam38 [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 6:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to chat-up HB sitting in the park waiting for Bf?
By the way, there is always a small social gathering at this fishing lake and always seem to have Hbs present...sitting or walking.
Author:  Versalis [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 9:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to chat-up HB sitting in the park waiting for Bf?
Yes, I'm aware. Being a fellow average looking guy, I get that daygame is wildly more difficult for us. We have little to no initial attraction and have to build it from scratch, and do it in a limited amount of time.

I'm just saying that attacking the boyfriend forces her to defend the boyfriend. That does nothing positive for you. It makes it plain that you're into her, and makes her think that you replacing him as her new boyfriend is on your mind. This is not a helpful thing for her to think.
Author:  Webcam38 [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 10:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to chat-up HB sitting in the park waiting for Bf?
You are right.
Author:  Digital_Spy [ Sat Jul 12, 2014 2:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to chat-up HB sitting in the park waiting for Bf?
Christ dude. You are one fucking loser. Most girls say they are waiting for their boyfriend so that you will fuck off and leave them alone so in your stupid, dumb ass head you really think the best way to get her to like you is to slag off her boyfriend and then start crying like a baby about how you didn't get to SEXUALISE the convo. You come across as one weird, desperate, little cunt that's for sure. Who the fuck do you think you are to start sexualising a convo with a complete stranger? Fucking asshole.

You guys are hopeless at everything you do. No common sense. No boundaries. You just launch into some kind of weird wacko mode and do your best to scare every girl away because you have shit for brains. No social skills, nothing genuine at all about you except to act like Brad's stupid, little puppet while making complete assholes of yourselves Girls can see a FAKE idiot coming a mile away. Y'all deserve nothing and you're all mighty fine at achieving .... NOTHING. Every girl you see you think it is your devine right to have or to fuck and the lengths you go to to pretend you are something you're not is just fucking pathetic man. Get a clue.

No wonder girls are sick to death of us with you fucking clowns out there who have no idea how to behave like a normal, functioning dude but instead act like bully boy, desperate little arse wipes.

User has been warned for this post. Forum Rules -Mod
Author:  Webcam38 [ Sat Jul 12, 2014 12:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to chat-up HB sitting in the park waiting for Bf?
I am far, far, wierder than your worst imagination. . 7 * %klj34...???
Author:  Webcam38 [ Sat Jul 12, 2014 12:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to chat-up HB sitting in the park waiting for Bf?
And Digital-Spy is most likely a woman, a supressed homosexual who disses the force of the PUA.
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