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Author:  Drishtant [ Sun Jun 15, 2014 2:57 pm ]
Post subject:  A newbie here. Please Help me to improve body language
Hi ppl I'm a 19 year old Indian guy . No girlfriend n never had one ...u know d rest.... One of the main problem is my body language can you please suggest ways to improve my body language? Please help guys
Author:  overworm [ Mon Jun 16, 2014 12:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: A newbie here. Please Help me to improve body language
Observation. Observe Alpha males behaviours and body language and try to mimic them.
Author:  Drishtant [ Mon Jun 16, 2014 2:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: A newbie here. Please Help me to improve body language
Thanks man! But can you please give me some tips regarding d same..
Author:  flamingace96 [ Mon Jun 16, 2014 3:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: A newbie here. Please Help me to improve body language
check out hank moody and also look at daniel craig in james bond. Actors are the masters of body language.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Jun 17, 2014 12:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: A newbie here. Please Help me to improve body language
Relax. Chill out. Quit being such a desperate tight ass ;)
Author:  Midget [ Wed Jun 25, 2014 8:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: A newbie here. Please Help me to improve body language
Funny, I have known so many Indians friends, and none of them have problems with approaching and being alpha type. I actually made an observation and most Indians are very very extroverted and have really good body language.

Best you could do is watch some Alpha primate documentaries and watch how their alphas communicate. It's astoundingly similar to human alphas. (They are after all our cousins) I know there's a documentary about it on YouTube by Nat Geo. just can't remember the title. You should check it out.

Simply put though; Alphas are usually very bold and loud. They take charge, make the first steps before anyone else does. For an example, a cute girl walks into a bar, an alpha would go up to her without hesitation.
Author:  Black Phantom [ Mon Jun 30, 2014 7:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A newbie here. Please Help me to improve body language
One of the best ways to change your body language is to go and sign yourself up
for a sport of some kind. ALL sports make your body language much better.

Marshall Arts - for the obvious, it makes you more solid and grounded. Your shoulders
become more relaxed, you start to feel your whole body more.

Trampoline jumping - probably one of my favorites. You jump up and down and slowly
do flips and it makes you extremely comfortable with your body.

Hit the gym and lift weights - this will automatically correct your body posture as you
can't lift weights with your shoulders slouched - at least not for long.

Swimming - again, straight back is required to swim efficiently. Also, you get toned
body and soften your moves because of water.

Etc.

You can study body language, and yes you can observe actors, but combine everything
with some sort of practice.

After I took up Thai Boxing I was never the same with my Body Language. So choose a sport
and work at it for couple of months to a year, and your body language will be different
for life.
Author:  KING KA'IR [ Thu Jul 10, 2014 12:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: A newbie here. Please Help me to improve body language
Here are the do's and don'ts that have helped me discovery the Alpha Male mentality within me.

Starting from the Subjective state of mind
1: Don't be needy; an Alpha Male doesn't look to anything outside of his own resources for help or comfort
2: Learn how to face life...and the unknowns that come with it; Everyday is a new CHALLENGE, so suck up your pride and your ego. Take on the challenges of "living with/for a greater cause" ...
3: ...Courageously
4: ...Passionately
5: ...and with Ambition

Transitioning to the Objective state of mind
6: embrace the ideology of "Taking care of your own" first
7: believe (with confidence) that THE WORLD IS YOURS, Life IS OPPORTUNITY! and whatever you set you mind to CAN BE YOURS
8: be humble! the world is yours, but it's not for you to abuse. Do not exalt yourself. Be greater than no man, but the man you were yesterday. You have no need to prove anything to any man or woman for that matter.
9: be secure in who you are: your beliefs, your passions, your choices
10: Set goals to ACCOMPLISH, you can't measure what hasn't been sought out to achieve
11: reserve your strength/power for the goals you seek to accomplish
12: don't hesitate with opportunity strikes (goes along with 3 second rule)
13: be able to constantly think on the spot and make on the spot decisions (shows your wittiness)
14: go after what you want aggressively!! NO THING NEVER COMES to those who were NEVER WILLING TO FIGHT for it.
15: patience never rush a good thing, most of all success
16: LOVE the most powerful emotion and the only one that can overcame hate/disdain/ill thinking

BODY LANGUAGE
1: Mind over matter; it all starts in the head, your thinking - FOCUSED, CLEAR MINDED (no distractions), stay OBJECTIVE BOUND in a strong subjective frame of mind
2: EYE CONTACT is the first communicator of body language. it all starts in the head right?
3: FACIAL EXPRESSION the most powerful facial expression is having no facial expression. The most attractive facial expression is a smile :)
3: NO SUDDEN MOVEMENTS, your body control should be as fluid and in control as your mind over your emotions
4: IOI's and IOD's learn them, study them, master them (practice studying these in men - alpha men in particular and women; you'll pick on the signs alpha men give women and women give alpha men)
5: Strong, clear, but suttle attention to IOI's women GIVE YOU and DON'T HESITATE TO RESPOND WITH YOUR OWN IOI's (remember 3 second rule)
6: Direct IOI's of body language WHEN YOU HAVE VALIDATED A WOMAN'S PRESENCE..YOU VALIDATE HER! alpha male :D
- verbal opener (if you've done what you were supposed to do and studied/assessed the girl to be valid..complimenting, stacked assumptions based on OBSERVATATION showing your control of GREATER ATTENTION)
- physical opener based on proximity (wink, head nod, smile, a gesture of attraction, or simply close the distance and GET HER TALKING)

hope these Alpha Male guidelines help you secure the AMP'd up guy in you. Best and GL
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