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Author:  Reztem [ Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Opening random girls in bars/clubs
I always seem to struggle with this as im quite a shy guy, and my friends are the opposite. They will go around talking to random girls whilst im just standing around. I've had a few girls approach me but don't want to sit back waiting for that all night.

I think I just struggle with openers, should I just say whatever comes into my mind to random girls. Alcohol usually helps me but don't want to rely on this.

I think my height doesn't help me either as I'm 6'4, and the girls in my area are usually short.

Thanks
Author:  southern_gentlemangq [ Thu Mar 13, 2014 11:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Opening random girls in bars/clubs
your height is a HUGE boost.....girls love tall guys to the point where even if you say something idiotic, you'll still get the number.....it might be corny but if you're shy start by practicing in the mirror, see how your face looks when you say certain things and fix it....practice makes perfect, also do the 30 day challenge where you just say "hello how are you" to every woman who passes by, young and old....you don't have to try to close, but just get over that fear of approach, then when you get to the point where you're not shy, start by saying "hello how are you" to women that you want, the more you do it the easier it becomes, to the point where even lame pick up lines work.......basically building confidence
Author:  Reztem [ Fri Mar 14, 2014 10:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Opening random girls in bars/clubs
Thanks for the tips. i will read up that 30 day challenge thread. I think its more of a "lost for words" when opening pretty girls,

Hopefully time and practise will change this
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